Hey all, 38M based in Manhattan. I am looking for someone to get to know who is interested in being a kink friend (online) or potential partner (local) if the vibe is right after getting to know each other. Not looking to rush, the right fit for both is more important. Open to kink or just spending quiet downtime making out.

Some kinks I am interested in: D/s (switch), roleplay, lingerie, light bondage, making you pose and perform (photos optional if it's a kink for you), orgasm control, being verbal, humiliation or praise, voyeurism, "public" play, cuddling after being rough.

Who I am looking for: Someone thoughtful as well, likes to play safe, intelligent. I am into all types, but I will say that asian girls are particularly attractive for different reasons. I like to run a few times a month as well as rock climb, so someone in average to decent shape is a good fit.

Photos: I have some up and others available to share, please be open to sharing as well. I'm 5'7, 150, white.

My personality type: Sensitive and thoughtful, a little anxious and a bit ADHD at times but loves getting to know people deeply. In the bedroom, I want to make sure a partner feels comfortable, satisfied, seen. Using people just for the sake of it doesn't do it for me, so even if this ends up being a short term thing, I want to feel like I have connected with someone in a meaningful way - in other words, not just looking to meet immediately to touch skin then part ways right after. I'm always interested in intelligent conversations about kink and sexuality. Overall, let's be good to each other.

Safety: I can verify however makes you feel comfortable. All play is safe to the level we are both comfortable with and obviously within any limits and safe words we discuss. Also, can provide recent test results, being mindful about sexual health is sexy. I don't do this often and hoping for someone that is selective as well.

Message if interested to chat and get to know each other a bit. I don't mind starting with chat or play online to get comfortable.