(I understand this is a huge shot in the dark considering all the other M4F posts, but sometimes it works)

I see the messages my wife gets from men so I understand the struggle

I am looking to meet with women interested in fun dates and a casual/lighthearted relationship that can develop into something more or not depending on how she feels about it. I am in an open marriage and happy with my partner, so I am very flexible when it comes to relationship types and styles. I would like to go out and get to know someone without the pressure or presumption of sex. If we get there, cool. If not, also cool. Again, I am open and flexible. If you like talking about your kinks, great. If you like to talk about your hobbies, great. The priority is to be comfortable and have a good time with pressure or presumptions.

A little about me:

• 6ft tall (not 5'11", not 6'1". I know people lie and are actually </=5'10" and hope you won't notice); 220lbs
• Straight, White (Irish/Scandinavian background)
• Shaved head and bearded
• Works for a tech company by Union Square, lives in Westchester on the Hudson
• Into nerd things such as video games (PC, PS5 & Switch), Dungeons & Dragons, sci-fi
• Horror movies and heavy metal
• I enjoy archery and axe throwing
• On Feeld (also OKCupid and Tinder but not active)
• Kink positive (Dom with switch tendencies)

Ideally, would love to connect with someone who shares some interests and would like to meet a down to earth kind of guy who isn't emotional or manipulative. Again, I see the messages my wife gets.

Open to FWB (emphasis on friends), dates, establishing intimacy, long or short term, consistent and/or casual and everything in between. Less interested in ONS and flings. If we connect, hit it off and I invite you over to my place, it's definitely so we can play multi-player Switch games.