Nice to meet you everyone! I’d prefer to share my name when I meet the right person. Hope that isn’t an issue. This is a lot so be patient with me please.

I will speak more on this below but, I do not have that much of a preference for people. Being Age 22-30 and living in NYC is the most important. I’ve never tried long distance and I feel like that would be harder for me. If we end up connecting and you’re able to come to NYC willingly, that is possible. If your age isn’t too far off, that is possible. Besides that, you as an individual, I don’t judge and I truly mean that.

Since I don't want to disappoint people, I’m going to make this as detailed and accurate as possible.

If you read my post, and if it truly interest you, please say “I read your post, nice to meet you”

Afterwards, Just tell me about yourself. If you’re shy, I'm very patient so I don't mind going at your pace. I will ignore, if I see “Can I see a picture?” Or asking me things you should have read here.

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**For the basics**

**Age**: 26

**Height**: 5’9

**Location**: NYC

**Nationality**: I’m American

**Race**: I’m Black

**Gender**: I’m Male

**Sexual Orientation**: Straight

**Relationship Status**: Never had one, so single.

**Body Type**: I’m Overweight until I reach my weight goal, but I can assure you that I've lost a lot and will continue to do so.

**Occupation**: I have a part time job and I am Currently a student.

**Living Status**: I do not drive or live alone at the moment. But I do love my train rides :)

**Family Oriented**: Yes, though they can be stressful, but I don't mind if you aren’t.

**Do I smoke/Do drugs**?: No

**Do I drink**?: Depends on the occasion but not regularly.

**Health**: Besides stomach aches which I'm getting checked out, being overweight which I’m

losing, I’m pretty healthy. But age is a factor so I can't promise this LOL.

**My picture**: I won’t show my face right now but if you want an idea, I have the confidence to say that I am handsome. I also wear glasses.

\[Pic of me\]([https://imgur.com/a/zZyxAH2\](https://imgur.com/a/zZyxAH2))

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The basics are purely based on preference. If the basics do not interest you, I would stop here. If it does, Hello there :)

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**How am I as a person?**

Nice to meet you, I honestly didn’t have the confidence to even be here but I'm giving it a try. I am someone who has NEVER been in a relationship. That involves being intimate or physical with anyone. I used to feel embarrassed to say this, but over the years I've come to find out that there is nothing wrong with it. Everyone has their reasons and everyone chooses when it’s time.

I’ve grown up in a tough situation and never did well in school. I was always the Shy, Quiet and Awkward type. I am always nice to people, from what I can remember I hope. I was afraid to approach people and I was overthinking EVERYTHING. I was that overweight kid who always sat alone minding my business. I didn’t make new friends and I didn't talk to people. I did have a good childhood. The friends I had all pretty much went to different schools. I was always the kind of person who looked out for them when needed. We ended up losing contact and I hope to talk to them again one day.

Fast forward to now, I did gain some confidence. I’m also doing extremely well for myself. I’m in school and lost a whole lot of weight. I’m more organized and I focus A LOT on self-care daily with food choices, exercise, sleep, reading, and hygiene. The difference is something I can notice and those around me. I started talking to people more and I can confidently say, I'm not afraid. BUT, making friends is something I still lacked and that also involves relationships. Being Shy, Quiet and Awkward is something that stuck to me. I recently learned about being an “introvert”. I’m the type who likes to mind my business, enjoy peace and work on new hobbies. Even though I said I started talking to people more, I’m not very talkative. I’m the type who doesn’t mind being quiet, listening and will never get upset about it. But believe me, I do put in the effort when needed. There are a lot of people who avoid this. I believe there is someone who can relate to me and wouldn’t mind. That’s the reason for this post.

Emotionally, I can be emotional. I believe everyone can be emotional. I just deal with things alone and often get in my feelings. I am usually the one who helps people when they are going through tough times. I do this because I hate to see people go through what I go through. I’d rather just see people happy. Every good person deserves comfort and peace. Also, I favor peace, I hate war.

I don’t hate politics and I watch them here and there. The people in power are too much focused on the wrong things. When it comes to certain topics such as, genders, etc. I believe if someone isn’t hurting someone, then it shouldn’t matter to us. Why care? We need to continue living our lives as long as we aren’t hurting people or ourselves. This is why I often mind my business when I see conflict. Life nowadays is scary.

Now that is pretty much how I am as a person. If you got this far, Hello there :)

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**What do I like to do?**

I love trying new hobbies and learning more about them. But if i had to choose, I love,

**Relaxing**. There are a lot of places to relax, that includes home. I can sometime be a homebody sometimes but i try to go out more. Being able to lay back and relax is something to always appreciate. It would definitely be better with someone.

**Technology**. This is something that I'm always passionate about and it is a HUGE part of my career.

**Going for walks**, especially through nature.

**Movies/Going to movies**. It is comforting and quiet which is something that I enjoy.

**Shows**. I still have some popular shows I have never watched yet, it would be embarrassing to say :)

**Anime**. I love it! I don’t mind any genre and I am proud to say that I have watched hundreds of them.

**Reading**. Reading is something that I want to do more of. Manga is something I have always been into. I also read webtoon comics.

**Basketball**. One of my favorite sports to watch and I've been taking interest in the NFL and soccer. Yes, I know soccer is football but that’s how I grew up saying it :)

**Gaming**. I mostly play on PC and Switch. I would also like to go to an arcade.

**Space/Our Universe**. Everything to do with space always fascinates me. I love imagining what’s out there.

**Daydreaming**. I do this almost everyday. I love creating my own stories and imagining them. I hope that one day I can write them when I get better.

**Music**. I listen to a variety of music. I also love listening to music I grew up with. To focus, my favorites would be listening to OST and pianos.

**Aquatic life/Animals**. Love everything to do with fishes and their natural habitat. I love animals in general but I am often afraid of some.

**Foods**. I think I'm allergic to shellfish but I do enjoy a variety. My favorites are usually pizza or Asian cuisines. I also love my Boba aka bubble tea.

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**What do I dislike? Well it’s simple**

**Racist**. Every RACE is racist. No one should exclude themselves. It saddens me more when someone that’s a part of a race being hated when their own does something terrible. We can’t group everyone together.

**Terrible human beings**. Besides those who can be forgiven, people KNOW what makes them a terrible human being. It’s really that simple.

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**Bills and relationships?**

Now, this is somewhat important for some. There are mixed opinions about splitting bills and such. No one should expect others to pay for something fully. Kind gestures are different. If you or I want to pay for something fully, we show respect by saying it ahead of time. If you or I can’t split or pay for something fully, we show respect by saying it ahead of time. Honesty is key. I've been the type to always plan ahead. I’m someone who believes that there should be individual and joint. Individuals so you have your own freedom and joint so the two can split for things. This is the healthiest way. But that’s my opinion.

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**Sexual Status**

I'm only attracted to women. My libido is great if that’s important. Preference on the "private part", I'm confident and I believe it's fine. I'm only answering this because for some, it can be important to a understanding extent. Any other sexual related thing about me is personal. I’d rather talk about them to someone who is interested in me. I do believe that is something we can agree on. If i haven’t been in a relationship, you can surely take the hint.

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If you got to this point, I appreciate you for reading. Hopefully I caught your interest and HOPEFULLY I can have success and delete this. I really don’t want to do this again.

I will update this as I go.