I keep telling myself I need to give up looking for sex on Reddit but I've had some really lovely experiences because of this place. So here I am, back again.

The title pretty much says it. I'm sick of dating apps (who isn't?). Pretty much every match is made based on superficial short bios and/or photos and nothing else. On here, because it's a largely text-based platform, you're forced to engage. And I like that. If I'm going to fuck someone, I want to be fucking their brain too, you know? (Not literally, gross.)

I could go into all my kinks (I have a lot) and wax poetic about all the things I want and love about sex but really what I need right now is a man to be nice to me, to show me passion and desire, and to make me feel good (while I also make him feel good, of course). Like I said, I'm kinky as hell (I'll share my FL username if you share yours), but also just like, let's have a nice time?

About me: Switchy. Early 30s, BBW, tattoos/piercings (ears/nose), dyed hair, unwaxed, vaccinated, recently tested. Think slightly alt plant lady queer librarian with big black glasses and even bigger tits. Good career, have my shit together (mostly). Live alone and prefer to host in central Brooklyn.

About you: Also switchy. 18-49, vaccinated, recently tested, and local to NYC. SINGLE (this one is non-negotiable) and STAMINA (no super quick cummers; this keeps happening). Hung (or hung adjacent). Preference for folks on the slim to fit to dad bod side of things. Must also love BBWs/fat women/etc. Make me feel desired. I like people who also have their shit together, or are at least good at feigning it. Most importantly, you should be nice.

If you want a response, chat me (don’t DM): Your age, a little info about yourself, what you like about bigger women, and a photo (face / torso / dick / whatever you're comfortable with). Put some effort into your message if you actually want me to respond. Also only interested in folks who can write in full sentences, can carry on a real conversation, and are down to actually connect and get to know each other a bit.

Help make me feel less alone?