Reposting as we didn't find anybody suitable last time. Shoot me a message if you're keen :)
My friend (27F) and I (26NB) are trying to do some responsible unicorn hunting. We are looking for people to join us for sex and hopefully develop an ongoing friendship with. We are both multi-gender-attracted and are seeking someone who is the same.
We take enthusiastic consent and safety very seriously. We both have all clear STI results from within the last two months - it would be a big bonus if you had recent results too. We are looking for single and/or ENM people only. Please stay out of here with your "discreet" euphemisms 👍
Also we're both pretty neurodiverse (ADHD), so be ready for that small amount of chaos.
About me:
I'm transfem non-binary, and use they/them pronouns and gender-neutral nouns (I'll let you know if you can use gendered language on me).
I have been described by my friends and partners as a sweet and caring person to know. They also say I'm a very feminine person to sleep with (though the gender fluidity kicks in sometimes and I have an occasional masc day) - I'd get quotes from them but that seems tacky :P
I work as a queer nightlife photographer, which is great fun! We have such a beautiful community here in Naarm. I also work as a learning support in schools. I'm into music (not playing much atm, but going to gigs and swapping album reccs is a good time) and also periodically interested in video games too. Big bonus points if you're an artistic person and can introduce me to cool art things!
I live in the inner SE suburbs and generally have a fair amount of free time to catch up - I'd also be interested in 1on1 fun times if we click!
I have photos of me on this account :)
Sexually, I like to have sex with people that I feel safe and comfortable around. I like a slow build during a sex session and generally have a pretty slow pace (especially with new people). I like lots of body exploration - genitals are cool but there's so many other places on bodies to play with too! I don't do anal sex, but most other things are great for me. I enjoy some light kink - bondage, gentle dom/sub stuff (the interpersonal dynamic more than the actions), and I'm very switchy.
About my friend:
She's a cis woman, using she/her pronouns and female nouns. She describes herself as nerdy, quirky, and outgoing. She's a teacher, performer, and disability support worker.
Sexually, she's up for a lot of things. She gets really subby for fems, it's very cute to watch. She loves to dom masc people. She's into bondage and likes rougher sex (nails = good) . She's been very excited about threesome ideas and talks about it a lot :P
Photos of her will be made available if after some exchange we feel like you're a decent person :). She's not as public as I am online. I, of course, find her very attractive, but you'll have to find out later. If this stuff matters to you though, she says she's "blonde, long hair, average height, and an hourglass shape".
About you:
Any gender and any body parts welcome. You can ID as whatever sexuality you want, but please be attracted to both of us if you're going to try and get involved in a sexual time with both of us. We want everyone to be into everyone!
We would love to find someone we can have an ongoing friendship with. We have some lovely queer friends and would welcome other lovely queer people into that family if you're right for it. Being kind, mature, and communicative are our main priorities <3
We're looking somewhat around our age. Low twenties to mid-late thirties. This is just for comfort's sake; being older than that doesn't mean we don't think you're hot!
You must be trans friendly. You must know how to use appropriate language for me. I have no more energy to spend making friends with people that I have to teach. If you have questions, you can google them. You must also be multi-gender-attracted friendly (seems obvious but biphobia comes out of the most unexpected places sometimes)
You need to be conscious of sexual health. If you haven't tested in the last three months, you'll be way down the preference list. If you don't practice any sort of safer sex, it's a flat no from us.
Non-blank profiles get first priority. If your Reddit history shows you're a good person, that makes me feel a lot better about connecting with a stranger.
If this fits you, send us a message about yourself and we'll see how we go from there. We look forward to hearing from you!
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