Hi there I am not particularly sexually experienced (have only had one partner and that only lasted a handful of months) and I am looking for someone to hang out with on weeknights / on weekend. I work full time in IT and most of the people I work with are men in their 40s who already have partners and families.

I'm not someone who likes to go out too much, more of a homebody. I like to spend time walking my dog and watching him play at the park. I am overweight (covid weight gain) with a curvy build, but I am making changes to eat healthier and go to the gym (started out last week with the intention to go at least twice a week consistently).

I love playing League of Legends, road trips and spicy food. I would like to say I'm intelligent, playful and quite friendly - almost too much to the point that I give off friend zone vibes so my recent dates have never lead to much.

Physically: Weigh 95kgs (I hide it well) Height 5'1" Half Asian/caucasian Clean smile/ hygienic

Now! About what I'm after, and more about whether you fit the below description!

I am looking for someone who is non-judgemental and okay with a slow burn as I take a while to get comfortable. I am definitely a giver in bed, normally not the one to make the first move, but as I'm more comfortable I would like to.

I would prefer someone with a soft/dad bod build. Someone who is gentle and okay for some "vanilla" sex and take it from there as I am inexperienced and have no idea what I might like. Someone with clean teeth is important for me, I'm so sorry, but I do get turned off if they look particularly yellow. Must be okay with cats and dogs as I have my own small dog and cat.

I live in the S.E. suburbs (live in Bayside but currently near Oakleigh for a month house sitting) and have my own car and my own place so I don't mind hosting or going to you. I'd prefer to exchange photos and then meet in person over coffee first as internet vs irl have different vibes.

Prefer a FWB and open to something more if it develops, but happy to keep it casual. Please send me a DM to chat further. 😊