Hello,

I’m in Melbourne for the remainder of the year and looking for some enthusiastic, pleasurable, shared fun. I love connecting with others, (my primary partner calls me an intimacy slut) so even if we meet and aren’t feeling it, an evening that ends in deep conversations about life and culture would also be time well spent.

I'm drawn to kind, silly, and thoughtful people (leftie feminists a huge plus). The most pleasurable evenings I’ve had are with those who have an understanding of what they like, and can clearly communicate boundaries and desires; hearing what people are into is a huge turn on for me. I have a thing for short women, but this is simply a preference.

I'm tall (6’2”), bearded, and lacking melanin, with medium length curly hair (plenty to hold on to) and calming hazel eyes. I'm kinky (you don’t have to be), communicative, and get off on pleasing others (I travel with my favorite toys). I’ve been told by more than one lesbian that I’m great with my mouth and hands. I identify as straight and cis, however I find binaries harmful, “masculinity” suffocating, and heterosexual views limiting. My approach to sex focuses more on pleasure than orgasms (though the latter are certainly fun). I’ve had a vasectomy and always use protection. I’m vaccinated for both covid and HPV, and have STI tests regularly.

I’d prefer something ongoing, but I wouldn’t be against a single memorable evening. Ideally we’d hit it off and have a lot of great sex, maybe visit some of the sex cubs and kink events. When we’re not out having sex, we could have fun running around town to different museums, talking endlessly over coffee, sharing drinks, and cooking dinner.

Interests outside the bedroom include music, art, museums, cycling, cooking, eating, connecting, wandering. I see a wonderful therapist regularly, so negligible emotional labor is required. I'm also in an open relationship with a wonderful woman (we date separately), and she knows who I see and is supportive of all of my fun.

If this sounds interesting to you, let’s swap clothed photos (nudes don’t do much for me before I know you), meet for a drink (doesn’t have to be alcohol), and see where our time together takes us.

Cheers,

AA