Hello Reddit,

I'm a 37 yr old white male, tallish (6'1), slim and of average looks with pale skin, brown hair and green eyes.

I work a professional role in tech and am into art/design, music, naps, beers, bikes and dining out / exploring Melbourne. Pretty relaxed, chatty and I think I have a half decent personality (as in not a total dickhead) but i guess that's not up to me to decide. I have a small workspace in the city and am lucky enough to choose my own schedule so am down for catching up / ditching work whenever! I love a mid week drink or two to break up the week.

What i'm looking for? Well i guess a FWB type situation. I am not much of a one night guy because i love slowly building up to kinky plays over time and learning what each other likes so yes that would be good. Love that feeling of being totally at ease with someone and feeling free to express needs, kinks and any fantasies openly.

I don't have any hard must have's. But i guess i'd just hope we can get along well both with chemistry and good convo. I enjoy cuddling up and chilling after sex napping, chatting or listening to music together in bed when time permits. I'd love to have something fun and easy that is a total escape from reality and the daily grind, where it's only about relaxing, rejuvenation and making each other feel amazing.

Only seeking casual but if the right person came along i wouldn’t say no to more if there was a connection, but not looking to force something. I prefer when things happen organically in that department.

I find the 'what i offer' part the most difficult because all i offer is me. Yeah I’m a dork but I’m also a passionate and communicative playmate who is not flakey or time poor. I can be available to meet your needs when you want me and am open to exploring any kinks. The primary focus of this would be our combined enjoyment and a bit of escapism.

Well that's about it, please send me a message if you think you may be keen.

Thaaaanks