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Hi there, everyone! I hope you're doing well. 😊
As you can no doubt tell from the title of this post, I’m looking for an older woman who is interested in exploring an emotionally engaging connection with a mature and thoughtful younger man - that younger man naturally being myself! I would love to create a passionate and powerful bond with the right person, someone who is open to making romantic, intimate and sensual memories together.
Regardless of how dreadfully cliche it sounds, I struggle to identify and feel attracted to women my own age. Don’t get me wrong, I completely respect these women and am perfectly capable of forming good relationships with my peers. However, I find myself gravitating toward relationships with older people in my personal and work life much more frequently. I really value emotional honesty and maturity and find that more often than not older women do too. It doesn’t take me long to spill my guts about the things I care about and the way I think; about love, life and my struggles to someone who values the same things I do. I’m often told I have an "old soul" and am quite mature for my age - but whether that is truly the case I will leave that up to your own discretion!
You may be able to tell - no rewards for guessing! - but the things I value most out of a partner are emotional maturity and empathy. I also value sensuality and expression, which I personally believe is elevated by the former two. Being intimate with someone whom you have an intense emotional bond with can be so palpable and intoxicating, and because I often find myself bonding with older women most often naturally, I’m extremely attracted to the idea of finding the right one for me!
As for myself, I’m a 24 year old white male. I’m about 5’8, thin body type, with wavy-curly brown short hair and eyes to match! I’m happy to share pictures of myself when we both feel comfortable. More intimate details I find a little crass to put on here but am happy to answer. I am extremely passionate about environmentalism and social justice. I am a bit of an idealist, it may be obvious. I love the outdoors, camping and a little bit of gardening. My biggest love is literature and poetry, although I do struggle to finish a book before moving on to the next one! I love to write and I like to think I'm pretty decent. (please tell me what you think of this post!) I like fashion, board-games, nature walks, biology and much more! In terms of music I love soul and jazz, and 80's stuff in general. I’ve got a playlist of stuff I’d love to send!
Anyways, I hope I’ve done an adequate job in describing my genuine feelings as well as given you a taste for the kind of person I am! All I can say is that if I’ve genuinely captivated or awoken something within you, I’d love to hear it! (I’m listening to Norah Jones while writing this so it may have affected my tone a little 😅)
Like I said, I am looking for a genuine connection and the last thing I am is discriminatory, so feel free to go wild! I do have my limits and I will tell you if you cross any boundaries, as I hope you will do too. I really want to create a consensual, safe environment for each other where we can feel appreciated and looked after
18 , I’m not interested in discussing topics that aren’t between or don’t depict consenting adults. Bigots/racists/etc need not reply. These are my main limits, otherwise I am happy to discuss other topics we may both be interested in as they arise!
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