So I managed to manifest my perfect person. But like any good wish fulfillment story, there is always a cruel tragic twist where it doesn't work out for some reason. So I'm going to tempt fate, dig deep and try again. Dear universe.... Same person please, but they have to be equally into me as I am into them. No stupid last minute gotchas, or lame "here's your perfect person but they live on the other side of the world," nonsense either. Seriously. Can't believe I have to say this.

About me:

I'm a tall, very experienced, relatively fit guy, looking for someone on the same wavelength as me when it comes to very non-vanilla bedroom interests, and also enjoys wholesome activities, dates, and all the other fun relationship stuff.

I'm a bit of an introverted extrovert. I really enjoy my own company, although I'm a bit over it since spending the last two years isolating. When I do have time to myself, I enjoy reading, playing the occasional game, or doing my very nerdy hobby that is too hard to explain here. But I also absolutely love going out on road trips, picnics, seeing movies, checking out exhibitions, surfing, and I do enjoy going to music festivals or clubbing now and then (I love dancing). I think I'm a pretty interesting and fun person to be around, and I'd love to share that side of myself with someone.

Sexually, I have no limits when it comes to fantasy/role play, and only a few limits when it comes to real-life play. Feel free to check my post history for more in depth information about what I'm looking for, or happy to go into more details about sexual interests in private. I am extremely respectful of boundaries (if it's not fun for both of us, it's not fun for me), and there would also be a very strong understanding that just because we talk or fantasise about something, it doesn't necessarily mean we want to do it irl. I think that's important to establish that right from the beginning to make a safe space to be fully open about what gets us off.

What I'm looking for:

Age, Race and body-type are not big factors for me. I am more interested in the connection and enthusiasm over mutual interests. If you have a pretty face I'm probably going to be into you regardless of your body type. Having said that, it would be great if you did have an ongoing minimal commitment to your physical health, as I would enjoy having a partner I can go on hikes or do other physical activities with.

Ideally you'd be intelligent, passionate, open minded and extremely non-judgmental, and a good sense of fun and can laugh at yourself. Ideally you have some passing interest in nerdy stuff, but have interests outside those and haven't made it your identity.

I am open to people in poly/open relationships, so long as my emotional needs are being met, but I think I would prefer something monogamous to begin with while we get to know each other. My only non-negotiables are that you have good emotional maturity, are a good communicator, honest, and respectful. Oh, and that you don't want kids because they're not on my agenda (I love kids, and would be open to adoption or fostering. Just don't want any of my own. No child haters please).

What I offer:

I am extremely fun, supportive, easy-going and low maintenance. I am extremely affectionate, but also very self reliant and also considerate of your need to have your own space and time to yourself. I am extremely perceptive and intuitive so I'll usually know if you're feeling off before you do, and I'm an excellent listener. I am also extremely honest. And very well-hung, if that's your thing. I have a lot of experience in most sexual diversions, and love to provide a safe and fun environment for my partner to explore any fantasies, no matter how out there they may be.

There is so much more to say, but I'll leave some things to discover in person. Oh one more thing: I'm recovering from a sex related injury which means I can't masturbate or have sex until at least September/October! The positive side of that is that it will give us plenty of opportunity to get to know each other first. I'm located in Geelong, but I travel to Melbourne regularly, and would probably eventually relocate to Melbourne if I had a partner there. Shoot me a message if any of this appeals, and happy to share photos in private. Look forward to talking to you!