About me

32 year old UX designer, working for government. Moved back to Melbourne at the beginning of 2021 for the second time after a stint back in Sydney due to work and personal circumstance. Its great to be back! and with that i am looking for someone that I can have a wholesome and fun time with.

I'm into a variety of music that mostly centres on the EDM variety, but with interests across Metal, Epic Music, Dark synthwave pop and fun remixes from creators like The Kiffness.

Gaming is a huge hobby for me of course. I stream on twitch regularly and do youtube content to a small and familiar audience. You don't have to be on camera with me of course, but i'd welcome someone who can match my energy and come play occasionally.

I also like to read a lot, and my guilty pleasure is fanfiction and other user published content. The hard part is sifting the good from the bad, the worst part is finding that the great hasn't been updated since 2018 :(

Outside the digital realm, i work out consistently 5 times a week and work on my diet (current pics on profile). I cook for myself all the time, love to try new restaurants and places out in the city for drinks and ice cream :D I have a car, so we can always take a day trip or weekend somewhere.

I've got a pet bird, a 18 year old parrot who ive had all her life. She's friendly and loves cuddles as much as I do :D

What I'm after

I'm after something consistent and fun. With a view to potential long term partnership with the right person doing cute couple stuff in public, like scandalously holding hands, going out to dinner together and lending you my jackets when you get cold.

You would be a woman my age or younger (age gaps are fine). enjoy movies/TV shows together and have a great time in bed. My building has a gym as well, so a workout partner would be appreciated.

I am a huge geek, so i have particular interest in fellow geeks and weebs where we can share hobbies and interests together, and generally be best friends as well as lovers. The phrase "where are we dropping?" is both a question and flirty banter.

What i offer:

I'm pretty secure where I am, renting an apartment near the middle of the CBD and a car too. I offer a stable, consistent partner that loves to communicate, spend time together and offers world class hugs.

I like to set up a space where you can relax and not worry about your problems outside. Given that i work from home a lot, you're welcome to curl up on the bed behind me for company or cling onto my lap. My bird may compete with you for space, but give it time and you'll both realise there is plenty of me to go around.

My love language is physical touch and quality time, and i offer plenty of that in return as well as words of affirmation. I like being able to spend time together even in comfortable silence. Some day when we've each got our own setups, we can share plenty of introverted quality time during the day wrapped around each other comfortably as we watch something interesting on YouTube, or cheer the other on in a co-op game of choice.

Use Reddit chat or send a PM with as many pics and info about yourself as you're comfortable sharing :)