TL:DR 1st ever post leads to an amazing relationship, thank you r4rMelbourne

3 years ago I came out of a long-term relationship and really wasnt keen on dating apps.

I knew of reddit so joined up and found this sub. I posted up looking for someone to hang out with and maybe even a pity lay.

One fateful night I got a received a DM and we immediately hit it off. The chat quickly moved over to our socials, the banter flowed and I knew there was definitely a spark.

We arranged to meet one friday night after work at a little bar called Smithward in Collingwood. She was even more attractive irl. The g&t's flowed, the conversation never dulled and before long it was closing time, we were outside and a break in conversation happened, so I took the chance and kissed her. It was shortly decided after, that we were going to my place.

We spent the night pleasuring each other before crashing out. I needed to be up early the next morning but was happy for her to stay. As I attempted to get out of bed in the morning she grabbed me, pulled me back down and started kissing me, stroking my cock and tempting me to stay. Alas I couldn't but needless to say thought about it the whole day.

Over the next few months we saw a lot of each other, she opened up a lot of doors sexually for me and we always had fun with each other, visiting cafes for brunch, going to bars etc. Pre-pandemic it was pretty obvious neither of us were interested in anyone else and we spent all our time together.

During the lockdowns she lived with me and I couldn't have been happier. Our sex life never dulled, our attraction and banter remained the same as it was at the start, it was in essence a perfect relationship.

Unfortunately we both wanted different things in life and decided to end things towards the end of 2020, on good terms.

To this sub, thank you for being the nexus between myself and such an amazing human being, a true treasure of a person.

You know who you are, thank you for showing me I am worth loving. Thank you for being so patient, kind and caring. Thank you for teaching me so many things about cooking, about Viet culture, about myself and sex. Thank you.