I'm looking to connect with someone for an FWB situation where we can hang out as well as be intimate, though both don’t have to happen every time. I’d love an ongoing, casual arrangement, but I’m open to exploring more if our lifestyles and desires align. I’m happy to discuss what that might look like for both of us.

A little about me: I’m an educator, lifelong learner, and passionate about the things I dive into. These range from people and animals to BDSM, board/video games, civil rights, climate change, sports, education, and hedonism. I’m into general nerd culture and really enjoy learning about someone’s current hyperfixation as much as sharing my own. I’m also the kind of friend who won’t talk you out of treating yourself, but I’ll help you minimize any risks involved.

Physically, I’m 6’0, athletic build, and a black American who has been living here for over a decade. I’m pansexual, body-positive, and kink-positive. NSFW pictures/activities are on my profile if you’re curious, happy to trade sfw pics while chatting. I have experience in group dynamics (happy to be a third for MMF or MFM). I’m a Top and a Dom, but willing to switch (sub, but still a Top) for the right dynamic.

A few logistics: I’m married with young children and a full-time job, so dates will need to be planned in advance. My partner is fully aware of and supportive of my endeavours, but rarely joins because of logistics with the children. So we tend to play seperately unless the stars and planets align for us. I can host or travel.

What I’m looking for: Someone aged 25 who values open communication. I’m not fussed about gender or physical attributes—if we find each other attractive, I’m sure we can find ways to connect and play. Bonus points if you’re interested in any of the topics I’ve mentioned or are passionate about making the world a better place. Let’s kick off some great conversations and see where things go!

Location: I’m based near Colac and can easily travel between Warrnambool and Geelong. I also visit Melbourne regularly, so meeting up there works too.

If this sounds like something you’re interested in, feel free to reach out or check out my Fetlife profile: AmatueurJuggler