heyo! i'm an AMAB pansexual enby and i recently broke up with my partner of about year and a half. i'm doing okay with the break up at this point, but i've been finding myself wanting to be physically close with someone lately and that's been difficult to find. so here i am!

some more info about me: - 182cm tall, on the chunkier side, masc presenting, quite a few piercings and tattoos including stretched ear lobes - obsessed with music. i mostly listen to heavy music, but i also love hip hop, hyperpop, punk, indie rock, and psych rock (bonus points if you can introduce me to more jungle music, trying to get into it!) - huge coffee nerd - collector of hobbies - got the autism and ADHD combo - cat parent - 420 friendly

i'm looking for people who are down to cuddle, be emotionally vulnerable/available, and chat about the things that excite and interest us. you should also be open to clear and honest communication both ways, since i'm definitely still a bit sensitive right now and need to know that i'll be safe with you ( i want to make sure you feel as safe and comfortable with me as possible!). i don't know how open i am to anything more intimate than cuddles right now, but if either of us want something more then let's chat about it :) also bonus points if you want to watch bojack horseman with me, i just started it the other day and have been really enjoying it so far!

in return i can offer cuddles in kind, as well as someone to listen to you about whatever it is that you'd like to talk about, or a bottomless well of niche knowledge about my hobbies. i'm emotionally available, and put a big emphasis on ensuring we're both feeling safe and comfortable no matter what.

i'm happy to host (i live alone with my cat), and if you do come to my place then i've got loads of specialty coffee, games to play, some Funny Lettuce to share, a nice tv to watch stuff on, and i can cook us some food.

if this sounds good to you, feel free to drop me a line in my DMs! i'd love to get something organised for tonight/tomorrow, but the desire for closeness likely won't go away any time soon so reach out even if you're not free this weekend!