Woke up this morning with the horny Peninsula blues….again. Time to fix that!

Thiis mature man, just the wrong side of 55, would love to meet a like-minded lady of a smiliarish age who is also based south of Frankston. There seems to be an absolute scarcity of visibly intelligent and libidinous women over 40 on the Peninsula. Why is that?

I’m in a long-term relationship of the ethical non-monogamy flavour and yes she knows I am posting on here (yes, really) and hoping to find someone. We have been together 10 years and neither of us believe that monogamy is a sustainable way of life for people like us. We do not judge others, but that is just exactly how we are, and our relationship was actually founded on that basis. We do not live together - she lives 115km away. And yes, we have an amazing sex life. But we love the excitement of “other”.

I’m tall, athletic, in great health, and have a strong drive. Intelligent, worldly-wise, a career professional in a white-collar role yet with a tradie appearance - which I far prefer. I’m the opposite of “snob”.

I am literate about world affairs and passionate about many other things, including my grown-up children and animals.

Almost an empty nester. The youngest still lives with me a couple of days a week only.

I don’t need a relationship in the classic sense. I have that! But I crave a long-term friend who has a high sex drive that has not been sated in years. Months. Weeks. Or days. Hell, even hours - I am absolutely non-judgemental. I fully and openly admire a strong drive in a mature lady. Hell, “worship” may be a better word.

Look at the upsides: no drama, no commitment, you do your thing and I do mine, keep dating / stay attached, but meet me when you need that itch scratched and you wanted to be treated nicely, with respect and kindness. Why not forego the irritating habits of middle-aged men with all their BS baggage and just have me on speed-dial for when you need a damn good tongue-lashing and a few laughs in agreeable company?

I don’t smoke and I don’t do drugs. I’m a gentleman with old-fashioned manners. And I’m clean. But I’m also very, VERY dirty….

No evil kinks. But I do love word-power, written and vocal. ;-p

Anything from a drive-by f*** to very casual dating would hit the spot. Not looking to change my situation - that won’t happen. Emotional intelligence is HIGHLY respected, expected and freely given. Come at me. X