Attempted this roughly 6 months ago with no success and waaaay too many messages that got left unread and not responded to (which I fear will happen again lol) so here's another attempt!

About me:

I’m 23 years old and recently graduated. I like reading and writing, watching video essays on YouTube, and listening to music. I’m tall, thicc / chubby / whatever term you want to use (I’m a size 18 lol) and trying to become the alt girl of my dreams. I have 5 nose piercings and a few tattoos. Currently have ginger hair that I really need to get redyed, wear glasses, and I’m a lil cross eyed. And for people who care about political leanings I’m a leftie.

What I offer:

An open minded and non judgemental space to discuss and explore sexuality, someone who cares about the F in FWB, and good cuddles. I’m someone who takes sexual health seriously. I get tested regularly and have always tested negative. I’m also on hormonal birth control.

What I’m looking for:

This is where the “kinda specific” part comes in. I’m looking for someone aged 27-37ish who’s into involving age/experience gaps into sex. I do have some experience with sex and kink, is it more or less than people my age, I’m not sure but that’s not the point lol. I’d also want to include other kink play but I’m not going to put out a big list. For the most part I’m only really interested in being a sub.

These types of requests tend to attract some weird people unfortunately. Obviously if someone is looking to take advantage of me, I’m just going to stop all contact. Also my relationship with my father is fine lol.

Appearance wise I do tend to have a preference for big men with beards (interpret big however you like lol). But it’s not something I’m super set on. I tend to be taller than a lot of guys I see so it’s really not an issue.

Please don’t be offended if I don’t respond or if I stop responding. These types of things tend to be overwhelming for me. I’m not looking to meet up straight away (or within the next two weeks) so if that’s something that’s important to you then we’re not compatible.

Bonus points if you have your own place and if you’re comfy enough to share a face pic straight away. I prefer to chat before sending mine so obviously no pressure.

Please tell me a little bit about yourself when you message me. I probably won’t respond to short messages or messages from people who don’t fit what I’ve set out here.