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40 [F4M] Umm why aren’t we friends yet?
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dancingnecessarily is a female age 40 looking for a male in Melbourne, Australia
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Hey 40F looking for friends in Melbourne but if I develop a crush on you that’s your fault. Actually it’s a bit my fault because that’s what I’m hoping to find.

About me

40F, single, bit nerdy. Okay very nerdy. I’m a dev but not super into talking about tech socially. I have a Jack Russell x who is my snorey, smelly best friend. I like pop music, horror/sci-fi films, sci-fi tv, gaming, coffee, skincare, cats and dogs equally. I just bought a house in the tippy top north of Melbourne and ppl are already stealing my plants. What do I do? Get spikier plants? I’m renovating and have lots of ideas for DIYs so if that’s interesting to you HMU!

But tell me what you like maybe we can vibe. I’m very introverted but will meet in person if it’s absolutely necessary. Timezone is pretty neat, wanna go? I have ADHD and anxiety. Like, properly diagnosed ADHD, I struggle with organising my life, I have difficulty with object permanence mostly. Despite that I’m a pretty mature and self actualised human being.

What I’m looking for

I’m fine just to chat. Generally looking for friends in Melbourne, it hasn’t been really easy to make new ones since I moved here last year. I enjoy speaking to anyone who is kind and friendly. Bonus points for oversharing. Age and gender aren’t a barrier to friendship but I’m more focused on finding a romantic connection now. If that’s what you’re seeking please be a single man who is over 35 or under 45.

What I offer

IRL I’m a good listener and, despite chronic anxiety, I try to make ppl feel comfortable. I can hype you up, help you solve problems, be a shoulder to cry on. Say hi, please!

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Age
40
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a male
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