Hey all 👋
We're looking to try out our first sharing experience, meaning that a guy spends time with her who she has never seen or spoken to before. This would probably have to take place in August as we're smashed at the moment with life. Ideally you'd continue spending time with her after the first encounter, as FWB or anything else, there's no restrictions on what your dynamic and relationship with her can be.
Ideally we're looking for a guy I can chat to for a bit and make a judgement call on whether they're suitable for a day/night with her. I'd like to potentially meet-up with you 1:1 before you meeting her to further vet yourself.
Once I'm sure that I've found a suitable guy, I'll we'll schedule a time that works best for us all for you to come over, meet her and have some fun with her. There might be some MFM action, so you have to be comfortable with that, but it also might be completely solo, either way, we'll probably start the night all of us drinking or mingling together.
All of the below still applies but I will say for this particular scenario it'd be fantastic if you were well endowed and looked nice (don't need to be ripped, just have a nice face).
So if you're on the larger side down there send me a DM if the below looks appealing.
We're (M26 F26) searching for guys to share her with, hopefully leading to casual ongoing fun or more serious relationships.
For guys who're single or in a consensual and ethical open-ended relationship, please read on and reach out only if you feel like we share similar values and goals.
About us & who we are:
Her (26F Bisexual):
A beautiful and intelligent woman with a gorgeous, silky caramel complexion, plentiful curves and an amazing smile. Loves animals, D&D, a bit of light gaming, catching up with friends, quiet times and social times.
She works full time so has a busy schedule but can definitely squeeze in a sleepover or three. She loves to feel desired and return the favour, she likes guys who can flirt, are talkative and want her just as much as she wants them.
She is a larger girl with a rocking body and the cutest hidden tattoo (maybe the person reading this will be lucky enough to see it one day and hopefully she will be just as lucky to show it to them). She prefers in person meetups and doesn't like wasting time screwing around on messages indefinitely. She prefers to build relations with people in person but isn't opposed to a bit cheeky back and forth before a date or for guys she's attached to.
She's not very fussy about the physique of a person so long as they have a cute face, smile and present themselves clean. She's open to ideas and would like it if she wasn't the one having to plan or worry about interest, she far prefers it when someone makes their intentions, desires and interests clear while maintaining respect and comfort for all.
Him (26M Straight but comfortable around other guys):
Easy-going guy who loves his wife, very supportive of helping her navigate through this lifestyle and world. Loves chatting with others about her and is here to help both parties, if possible, feel safe, comfortable and good.
He vibes well with people who genuinely desire her and loves to be of assistance to her pleasure and desires. He is focused more on the boring and logistical side of ENM to help her have fun. He loves it when she has a good time, good relations or good friendships with others in general and through this lifestyle.
He loves when the opportunity arises to team up in pleasuring or spoiling her. He prefers it when dates are just as crazy about her as he is. He has a full time job that mostly aligns with hers.
We both value:
- No-expectation meet-ups, and making sure all parties are comfortable.
- Actively practicing consent.
- Respect, for one another, for her, for him and for all.
- All parties having a good time and all parties wishing the same for everyone.
- Honesty, even if it reflects poorly on him, her or anyone else.
- People who like sharing, are comfortable with sharing and can have fun with the idea.
- People who're comfortable with their sexuality and don't have reservations about pursing people in this lifestyle or relationship style.
- An openness to both him and her being involved occasionally for potential MFM fun and sleepovers.
What we offer:
Her: Fun dates, good company and conversation, potential on-going FWB, situationships, group play with him, as well as more serious relationships with the right person.
Him: A friend you can talk to and relate with about her and being with her. A potential person to share your more intimate moments with her and a team member if the opportunity arises.
About you/what we're after:
- Are in a consensual arrangement in which you're either single or are in an ethical open relationship of some type and are able to verify these details if need be.
- Are dirt and disease free.
- Offer maturity.
- Open and clear communication.
- Clear intentions.
- Can make plans and move on them.
- Is good at flirting through text and in person to create good tension.
- Extreme honesty.
- A nice face.
- A good personality or just a good guy in general.
- Have an equitable helping hand in hosting if there's a need.
- Have confidence.
Bonuses:
- Some nerdy hobbies can go a long way, if you share any interests in common with her, this is very beneficial.
PLEASE READ ALL OF THE ABOVE ^
If you reach out to me and I feel like you haven't read the above, I won't be replying to you.
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