About me:

I'm a 34 yo East Asian professional guy. I'm in an open long term relationship. I'm 6'1, 92 kg and have a stronger build - I play sports a couple of times a week and lift weights casually. Fairly experienced with quite a bit of participation in various kinks in my late-twenties and early-thirties, though things have slowed a bit since covid.

I work in the disability & mental health sector, and have a passion for connecting with people and sharing in their stories. People have described me as easy-going, patient and non-judgemental. Though sometimes I can be a bit of a stress-head when it comes to work.

Interest wise, I rotate through a series of hobbies. I love my sports (playing, not watching), making tea, sampling perfume, watching films and tinkering with computer/audio hardware. I used to be a menswear influencer and blogger in my twenties, and still have an active interest in Americana menswear.

I am seeking a new connection now, as I've had to say goodbye to three of my FwBs in the last 6 months and would like to get to know new people.

What I'm looking for:

I would like to get to know a lady my age or a little younger for a ongoing connection. Friendship, intimacy, a time and space to explore, de-stress and enjoy. Physically I'm attracted to slimmer cisgender women. Mentally I'm attracted to kind and considerate people. Good communication and punctuality arouses me. 😅

I believe for an ongoing connection to work out, both people must get value out of the relationship and be willing to invest in it. I'm hoping that whoever I meet will value the time and energy we both bring to the connection.

What I offer:

Weekly hangouts and the occasional adventure together (FFM). We'll eat, relax, do some interesting things and maybe even some naughty things. Let's start with a coffee or dinner meet, and see where we go from there!

Disclosure:

As mentioned previously, I am in an open long term relationship. I also currently have another FwB. What I'm offering is not exclusive.