Hey there, I've been craving to cuddle with someone for quite some time now. But more specifically, I'm looking for a girl to be a cuddle friend and ideally casual relationship if it works, but understandable if you don't want the benefit part or even just wanting to be a friend, I will respect it (consent is number one first and foremost after all)
I just really like the idea of having someone lay on my body, falling asleep on my lap or hugging me and then waking up next to me; body warmth and skinship really does wonder to someone's happiness and mood. I'm also a big fan of lap pillow, doesn't matter whether it's me laying my head or girl laying their head on my lap while playing with hair or browsing phone or reading book, etc2
Ideally, I'm looking for a nerdy girl around my age (like 25-36 years old) who happens to be into indie gaming scene (or just gaming in general), enjoys a bit of light board games (my favorite is splendor and sushi go), and also enjoys finding and trying new food places (I prefer asian ones usually) to go to as well as some online chats (can do voice and video when comfortable) and other outings like cinema, events (maybe even kinky/adult events? I always wanted to try), etc, from time to time. Big bonus if you are skinship heavy kind of person as I can (and like to) be very skinshippy with someone I'm comfortable with, especially at home because I grew up in a family with fairly big amount of skinship
For meetup location, my preferred places are arcades, arcade bar (like fortress and bartronica), gallery/museum, asian restaurants
As to what I can offer, I can offer cuddling and lots of them, gaming partner, someone to go outing with, someone that can listen if you want to rant (be it about accomodation, work, etc), homemade Indonesian/ Chinese/Japanase cooking, a place to crash in the city (if we're close enough)
So about me, I'm 32 (about to be 33 soon) asian male located in the CBD area, primarily into video gaming (bonus if they are anime styled, but not required), and also a bit of cooking and gardening. 100% introvert and mostly a homebody, but no problem with going out from time to time as well. Usually, I spend my weekend at home, either playing games or cleaning the place, maybe looking at DIY project, but also going to the gym a bit (sometimes) and the Victoria market. I like to consider myself an open-minded person
About me, I'm 32 (about to be 33 soon) Indo-chinese male located in the CBD area, primarily into video gaming (bonus if they are anime styled, but not required), and also into a bit of cooking and gardening. 100% introvert and mostly a homebody though I do enjoy going out from time to time too. Usually I spend my weekend at home, either playing games, cleaning the place, or maybe looking at DIY project, but also going to the gym a bit (sometimes) and the Victoria market
My topic of interests are in technology (in electricity power and recycling), doing recycling, and another recent interest is watching documentary movies (I watched A Compassionate Spy and Beyond Utopia recently, they're both great IMO) and AI image generation for personal use (as I don't condone people stealing other people's art)
If it helps, my even more specific interests are:
- Music: Mostly older ones like Michael Jackson, Weird Al, etc. The more recent one is Red Vox band, otherwise I listed to video game soundtracks
- Youtube videos: Vinesauce, LGR, Civvie11, Accursed Farms
A trivia about myself is that I can put my leg above my head
PS: I know I posted M4F, but if anyone else has an interest in the indie gaming scene and strictly wishes to be just friends, I'm okay with that too!
Another PS: While I'm happy to share a picture, I will not do so until I know you a bit better first, so please don't ask for a picture straight away. If you want, we can meet up early in or around Melbourne Central so you can see me in person directly though I imagine it's best that we chat first and get to know each other a bit first
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