Welcome to my r4r post. Have a seat, relax and read on about me rambling about myself. Hopefully you find a couple gems in there that you can relate to.

Basic info out of the way, Southeast Asian variety of human, spectacled, and 178cm (5’10) tall. Am a March baby, the superior month in my opinion as far as babies are concerned. For you ladies out there into astrology, that makes me a Pisces, for you ladies out there not into astrology, I am a hopeless romantic, emotionally available and ready to listen. Last time I did a personality test I was an INFJ-T. Am generally an introvert but can tap into my precious social battery in certain situations i.e. meeting and impressing your parents.

I went back to uni last year to do my masters in pharmaceutical science and this year will be my final year. Yup that means we can cook crystal meth breaking bad style when I graduate. Bit of a science nerd, bit of a nerd in general, I just like learning new things about everything (including yourself 😉).

Main hobbies include gymming and photography. I gym to get a THICC booty, I photograph so I have the skills to photograph pending THICC booty. Also accepting requests to photograph your booty (for purely academic purposes). More than happy to be your gym buddy; perks include, fun cardio 🌶️ or big feed after gym. Photography is my one creative outlet, used to do a lot of street photography but want to venture into more creative portraits. Going out shooting is definitely an underrated date idea that is not done enough. SHOOTING PHOTOS if that wasn’t clear.

Sub hobbies include: - taking care of my plants. I am a proud plant dad to Lils and Pips, my peace lilies and Anthea, my anthurium. If you're a plant mum I suggest we take our plant kids on a playdate. - gaming. Usually only with friends if online but might sink some time into a good single player game. Main consoles being PC and PS5. Also built my own PC if you wanted a hand in building yours. Then maybe we can also build up this relationship 😉 - reading. Trying to get back into this and keep consistent. Notable reads of late: Harry Potter: PoA, The Power of Now, The Alchemist, On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous. Currently reading Kamogawa Food Detectives. - cooking. Complaint free 100% track record of not poisoning my friends. I make a mean garlic bread that will blow your socks off (hopefully also clothes). Drop your ring size if you make banana bread.

In terms of bedroom activities, I am pretty open to things, I'd try anything once. Emphasise creating a consensual, safe environment where everyone is respected and needs are met.

I am looking for something recurring/long term rather than a one night stand. Ideally also developing into something more serious/exclusive. Two big points for me are someone who is intelligent and also has a curious outlook in life. I'm will be interested in your life and I expect the same energy back. Looking for someone who looks after themselves, or in the process of looking after themselves, someone who is honest, caring, adventurous both in life and in bed, funny as fuck and also doesn’t take themselves too seriously. Hopefully, this can turn into something super fun even if its temporary!

If you’ve read this far and you like what you see, what are you waiting for?! Slide in the DMs! As a famous paper salesman once said, "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take". Now you’ve truly earned a cookie for making it to the end. I hope I’ve ticked your boxes and I hope to hear from you. Please send a little intro to kick things off! And also down to trade pics once we’re comfortable.

P.s. I've had a real craving for banana bread lately. Bonus points if you've got a killer recipe.