Hi everyone :) I'm a kind and creative genderfluid person (they/she/he) looking for similarly kind people to have all srts of relationships with. I'm a relationship anarchist and try to just find the best form a connection with someone could take. At the moment though I'm mostly searching for people that I could have sexual relationships with, whether they become friends or partners. Ideally they would be long-term relationships - I like to be close with the people I have in my life.

I've got plenty of photos on my profile, including my face if you'd like to take a look. I'm into photography, leftist theory, participating in queer nightlife, and just finding ways to enjoy life in this fucked colony. I take a bit of time to warm up to people before feeling comfortable having sex with them - this could be after one long and successful date/hang, or after a few times meeting; meeting up and getting right to sex is not appealing to me.

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I have had a fully clear STI check (blood, throat, urine) 3 months ago and just went to the pathology centre today to get my latest one. I only want to have sexual relationships with people who are appropriately managing their sexual risk (including testing regularly), so please make sure you can back that up once we get to know each other if you're going to message me.

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Sexually, I'm into all genders (but typically less often find men attractive). I'm very switchy in terms of soft dom/sub roles and I enjoy doing and being done. I'm not into anal sex and I enjoy both non-PIV sex and PIV sex. The thing I enjoy most in sex is the slow, teasing exploration of all over mine and my partners' bodies, and I'm keen to be with patient people who revel in the experience. Real sapphic type shit.

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If you're interested and anywhere from 22-40 years old, shoot me a message and say hi. A little conversation starter is "if you could open any type of food service business that specialises in only one type of food, what type of food would that be?" My answer is chocolate ice cream!