I’m looking for someone to spend time with in a “mates who date” capacity and eventually turn it into something more serious. I’ve been single for a while now by choice, and I’m ready to meet someone on my level. If you don’t read this all the way to the end, please do not DM me. Hell, read it twice.

Who I am: My friends would describe me as considerate, loyal, charismatic, and fun. I align extremely far left on the political spectrum(eat the rich, acab, free palestine, etc) and I am looking for someone who also aligns on the far left of the spectrum. Outside of that, I’m an artist, I’m incredibly active, I enjoy cooking/baking, hiking, thrifting, crafting, rewatching shows a million times, singing in the car, and snuggling(plus a million other things). I’m smart, engaging, and funny. I have a great job, a cat, and have 0 desire to ever have children(non-negotiable). There’s a lot more, but I’ll start with that.

What I look like: I’m just gonna say it, I’m hot. I have my own sense of style, I’m sociable, and I’m incredibly comfortable in my own skin. I present very confidently and have been told I have a “magnetic personality”. I’m also pretty active, and I lift weights regularly. That said, if you’re the kind of person who is intimidated by women with muscle definition, please keep scrolling. I’m 5’3, about 58kg-60kg, and would describe myself as alternative looking (dyed hair, tattooed, etc.).

The fantasy: I think an ideal partner for me is someone warm, considerate, supportive and encouraging. Someone who is interested in who I am and wants to know my “lore”. A person who can think about what they want for their future and who they might want in it and in what capacity. Someone who can physically and verbally demonstrate their care and respect for other people. Someone who can communicate well and is emotionally available. I want someone to do active shit with, so if you go to the gym, even better. I am attractive and in shape, so you should be as well. Other than that, you don’t need to be tall, but please be taller than I am(not very hard, I’m small lol) and take care in how you present yourself. If you don’t clean your tongue when you brush your teeth, for the love of god DO NOT message me. I’ve been exploring poly for quite some time, but not in any partnerships at the moment. Open to the idea of monogamy with a person who is emotionally available, respectful, and has the ability to communicate effectively and consistently. I’m not here for casual encounters, so please don’t message me about that either.

Dating apps make me want to die and I’m not a pub frequenter, so I figured reddit would be worth a shot. Feel free to comment below if you have any questions for me! Otherwise, send me a dm with a photo of yourself. Your face needs to be visible. I will not answer any dms without a photo of included.