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Hello dear viewer and welcome to my r4r post! Trying a longer post format instead of dot points so sit back, relax and listen to me ramble about myself. Basic info out of the way, I am of Southeast Asian descent, I wear glasses and I am 178cm (5’10) perhaps even 180 if I stretch. Am a March baby, the superior month in my opinion as far as babies are concerned. For you ladies out there into astrology, that makes me a Pisces, for you ladies out there not into astrology, I am a hopeless romantic, emotionally available and ready to listen. Last time I did a personality test I was an INFJ-T. I don’t remember what that means but a quick google search shows that I am an empathetic introvert who enjoys self-depreciation? Sounds bout right. Am generally an introvert but will be extroverted for the right person.

Now to get into what I like to do for fun. My main hobbies are gymming and photography. Gymming to get a huge behind and photography so I have the skills to photograph my pending huge behind. Also accepting requests to photograph your behind. For purely academic purposes of course. If you need some pointers in the gym I’ll be more than happy to help you out or even be your gym buddy. I’ve been gymming for a while now so I think I know my way around a couple effective exercises. I love photography because it is my one creative outlet, much easier than drawing. I've recently acquired myself a cute little film camera which I thrifted. Currently welcoming anyone willing to give me some pointers and tips when it comes to shooting film. Or we can learn together? Going out shooting is definitely an underrated date idea that is not done enough. SHOOTING PHOTOS if that wasn’t clear.

I have also recently acquired a peace lily and an anthurium as well as having to adopt my friend's peace lily. One could say I'm a thriving plant dad. If you are a plant mum and would like to have a play date with my plants, enquire within.

I also love cooking, so far I haven’t had my friends complain, or poisoned them or maybe they are just being nice. I'm super extra when it comes to cooking. Think 48 hour short rib lasagna, herb crusted rack of lamb with a parsnip puree and homemade ramen. Just to name a few 😉. You can be the judge of my cooking. Naturally I also love eating which is very bad for my main hobby gymming. I also play games when I have time. My main platforms being PC and PlayStation. I built my own PC so if that’s something you want to do I can definitely help you out as well. Last game I played was Dave the diver and it's about Dave (duh) who is a diver (double duh) and in the daytime you dive in the ocean and catch fish and stuff then at night you help run a sushi restaurant. Absolutely amazing game and I've had so much fun.

I also should mention that I started my masters in Pharmaceutical Science. Yup that means we can cook crystal meth breaking bad style when I graduate in a year. Bit of a science nerd, bit of a nerd in general, I just like learning new things about everything (including yourself 😉). I think I have this library in my head containing very basic info about most topics, enough for me to have an interesting back and forth conversation. I also like reading, just started getting back into it after falling out of love with it after high school. Now I just read books that sound interesting to me or one of them cheesy self help books. Notable reads of late: Harry Potter: PoA, The Power of Now, The Alchemist, On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous.

Can't really talk about kinks here anymore I guess but I am pretty open about things. Place emphasis on creating a consensual environment where everyone's needs are met.

If you’ve read this far and you like what you see, what are you waiting for?! Slide in the DMs! As a famous paper salesman once said, "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take".

I am looking for something recurring/long term rather than a one night stand. Ideally also developing into something more serious. Looking for someone who looks after themselves, or in the process of looking after themselves, someone who is honest, caring, adventurous both in life and in bed, funny as fuck and also doesn’t take themselves too seriously. Hopefully then this can turn into something super fun even if its temporary!

Now you’ve truly earned a cookie for making it to the end. I hope I’ve ticked your boxes and I hope to hear from you. Please send a little intro to kick things off! And also down to trade pics once we’re comfortable.