I'm going to start this off with the fact that I am in a happy committed relationship, and I'm not looking for a fling - hence why I didn't put the NSFW casual encounters tag on. I explicitly just want company, no dirty stuff. My wife hates people seeing her naked body, so she wouldn't come with me but I have her blessing to go with someone else.
On to the meat and potatoes. I was recently involved in a violent assault, and since then I have been struggling to trust strangers, and be vulnurable to people, even those who I would otherwise trust completely. After having a discussion with my psychologist, we both agree that some exposure therapy might be good, and that you can't get much more exposed than no clothes on the beach, and since a lot of people at the beach will also probably be in the nude, it'll be hard for my brain to think that they're carrying weapons to hurt me.
The rules say I have to put clear physical attributes since it's an in person meeting - I'm an overweight white guy, however I am doing my best to get back under weight. I don't care what you look like
The attacker is male, as a knock on, I'm more comfortable around female people who I haven't met before than male, but if it comes down to me not going vs me going with another guy, I'll be going with another guy.
On to expectations. I'll be fully nude. I would appreciate if you join me, but it's not a requirement. I will however request that you help me in putting sunscreen on my back :) (and I will of course reciprocate). I'm thinking we spend an hour or two at the beach, or until one/both of us are tired of the whole thing and we agree to just leave.
I'm happy to come and pick you up from somewhere In the southeast and drive both of us to the beach - if you live around here then fantastic, but I'm also happy to pick you up from a train station as well. If you would prefer to get your own way there, that's fine too
No specific date set for this one, my aim is to find someone interested and then work around both of our schedules.
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