Hey folks! Hookups and casual flings are just too emotionally draining for my fragile self and his affectionate nature, just not a fan of the rollercoaster of feels lol So we're dating thoughtfully, purposefully, and would really love to find the right person that slots into our world perfectly! Even if you're not after a formal relationship please be open to the possibility of prioritising the F in FWB.

Plus size, piercings/tattoos, neurospicy, more physical details at the bottom. Inner west based.

We're a really chill and open minded couple. We like games, we both work in electronic entertainment retail so it's a part of our lives whether we want it or not lol Not a fan of playing online often but happy to check out your prized minecraft builds or do some mining in deep rock galactic or something if that's your social outlet. We also adore finding new cafes, or art exhibitions to go to. Total sluts for how creative Melbourne can be, especially when it comes to indie games or shops that highlight local crafters and artists like incub8r. Kinda witchy and like spooky things and horror nights. Big fan of musicals and amateur theatre. Hoping to go to more small gigs too once we find more artists we really vibe with. Latest musical discoveries have been Leah Senior, and Hugh F. We have a bunch of vinyl records because of course we do, and of course I have a lot of house plants, we're basic af.

We think we're pretty lovely folk with a lot of affection to give and some really positive vibes to share! We like to be our best selves, and love supporting someone on whatever journey they're on in life. Absolutely adore creating amazing dates, welcoming spaces, and comforting memories. I also like to think that both individually and together we give pretty amazing snugs, definitely the kind who respond well to physical affection and communication. Also very kink friendly, happy to discuss further haha

What we're looking for is someone that could fit in well with our vibe but also open us up to a whole new world of your own special interests and favourite spaces in Melbourne. We want to appreciate everything you have to offer and see the world through your eyes. We love the different dynamics that come out when we're all on dates together, or when just two of us are out creating new memories and clicking over different things. Ideally you'd be a little nerdy or nerd-adjacent. Anime, games, convoluted fantasy novels, an overly specific era of archeology etc. Someone who likes the more quiet pace of life and is happy with movie nights, picnics, and intimate coffee dates rather than weekly clubbing and quarterly overseas holidays. ...Although I do want to go clubbing sometimes pls come do my makeup. We have no specific preference in appearance or body shape. I'm very much a face person though so I'd love to see you as soon as you're comfortable. I can't pin down what I do or don't like, I just know her when I see her you know? That being said I swipe right on so many people I'm sure my algorithm is completely ruined so clearly I don't have a specific type. Definitely connect over personality and conversations.

The specific relationship structure we'd have is up for discussion, we're not a very hierarchical kind of poly couple, our third would be as equal and important as either of us would be. We're big on communication and making a dynamic work naturally for everyone, not just picking a label and forcing things into that direction just because that's what the label is supposed to be. But we have time, energy, and affection to give to a partner and we'd appreciate the same in return. We currently have no other relationships either together or solo and we're both the kind of folk who when we click well we prioritize building that relationship before looking into anything further. We have no issues if you already have a relationship or like to keep seeking more, as long as you're communicative and are able to give our dynamic the time and energy we all want it to have!

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Both pretty plus size, we steal each others clothes often lol I'm 5'4ish size 20/22, slowly getting as many tattoos as I can afford, facial piercings and keen for more, and generally kinda casually goth-ish. He's the same size but taller like 6'1 I think? Beard, a few tattoos, had a lot of piercings but only has septum and ears in now, usually in some dorky earrings. NSFW pics in my profile.