Hello hello!

I'm just getting started to the FWB/NSA lifestyle and doing some homework atm. I got excited when I found this Reddit community! Then I saw most posts here seem to be more for those in the 20's to early 30's. So I'm thinking, while it's unlikely for me to meet a Redditor to get me started, I'm quite sure there's heaps of members here with experience who are willing to help newbies get our feet wet in the water.

I'm quite open to suggestions, but for now, perhaps someone can enlighten me on the difference between these apps (sorry Reddit!) -- RHP, AFF, or Feeld? I tried their free versions and I'm still not sure:

• which one is quite popular in Melbourne?
• which is more appropriate for my age?
• which is worth the subscription (which plan)?
• any tips and tricks on using any of them?

Looking forward to your comments!

If more context helps, here's what my R4R would look like:

About me:

I am 38M, 5”6, lean athletic shape. Fresh to FWB/NSA lifestyle and keen to dive in. Outgoing, adventurous, with light humour, easy going.

What am I looking for:

Keen to meet a kinky female about /-10 age difference, perhaps similar fitness level (or not :)). I like a bit of connection and banter so bubbly personality would greatly help. Don't worry, it's all NSA so after care/chat not expected. Novice like me? Let's explore together! Experienced? I'm keen to be led (or told how to)! Did I already say I'm easy going? =P

What I offer:

A fun (or intense) adventure to join me get started in the lifestyle! I'm clean, respectful, open-minded with strong desire for some naughty play. I love to dine at the Y and make sure my partner(s) also enjoy the experience. Happy to meet up in the CBD or western suburbs for a drink or coffee to see how we click first before taking it further. Comment or DM me if interested!