For those who responded to my last post – I’m sorry I didn’t get back to any of you. My friend got into a monog relationship very shortly after posting so group sex wasn’t going to happen.

Lately in my life I’ve been feeling like I don’t have enough outlets for combined physical and emotional affection, so I’m looking for connections involving sex – This can be friendly or romantic or both. I’m not after a one night stand sort of situation. I am polyamorous, and have one romantic partner and one casual partner. Ideally I’d love to meet a person/people that can integrate into my life and wants to be friends with my friends and partners.

I take enthusiastic consent and safety very seriously. I have recent clear STI checks - it would be a big bonus if you had recent results too. I am looking for single and/or ENM people only. Please stay out of here with your "discreet" euphemisms 👍

About me:

I'm transfem non-binary, and use they/them (and sometimes she pronouns) and gender-neutral nouns (I'll let you know if you can use gendered language on me).

I have been described by my friends and partners as a sweet and caring person to know. They also say I'm a very feminine person to sleep with (though the gender fluidity kicks in sometimes and I have an occasional masc day). There’s some fairly recent photos of me on this account :)

I work as a queer nightlife photographer, which is great fun! We have such a beautiful community here in Naarm and I’m passionate about building it and supporting it. I also work as a learning support in schools. I'm into music (not playing much atm, but going to gigs and swapping album reccs is a good time) and also periodically interested in video games too. Big bonus points if you're an artistic person and can introduce me to cool art things!

I live in the inner SE suburbs and generally have a fair amount of free time to catch up. Chances are I’d probably want to meet you at least once first without having sex, unless things flow really well and feel right.

Sexually, I like to have sex with people that I feel safe and comfortable around. I like a slow build during a sex session and generally have a pretty slow pace (especially with new people). I like lots of body exploration - genitals are cool but there's so many other places on bodies to play with too! I don't do anal sex, but most other things are great for me. I enjoy some light kink - bondage, gentle dom/sub stuff (the interpersonal dynamic more than the actions), and I'm very switchy.

About you:

Any gender and any body parts welcome. Being kind, mature, and communicative are my main priorities <3 Please be roughly around my age. Low twenties to mid-late thirties. This is just for comfort's sake; being older than that doesn't mean that you’re not attractive!

You must be trans friendly. You must know how to use appropriate language for me. I have no more energy to spend making friends with people that I have to teach. You must also be multi-gender-attracted friendly (seems obvious but biphobia comes out of the most unexpected places sometimes). Having leftist politics is a big plus – it’s unlikely that you’ll fit in with me or my loved ones if you’re not on the correct side of the class war.

You need to be conscious of sexual health. If you haven't tested in the last three months, you'll be way down the preference list. If you don't practice any sort of safer sex, it's a flat no.

Non-blank profiles get first priority. If your Reddit history shows you're a good person, that makes me feel a lot better about connecting with a stranger.

If this fits you, please send me a message about yourself and we'll see how we go from there. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!