Hi I'm Grim.

I am here with a new post with a few edits.

I'm bigender and Panromantic Asexual. This is defs not my first post here but still spend way to long thinking about how to type these up. Before I continue I am looking for others close to my age(like 3 yrs older or younger than me plz) if you are looking for a romantic relationship. As for friendships the age doesn't matter.

I'm shy and introvert but when I get comfortable with someone I've been told its a little hard to shut me up(sorry in advance). Although I am shy/introverted I am quite blunt about how I feel. If I don't like something I will say so. I don't like to walk on eggshells with my feelings just to satisfy someone elses regardless of what it might be so I find honesty to be the best. I don't think a good relationship can/could last by not stating how we feel.

I've been told that I am quite a chill person, just loud and I am not someone who can be pushed around easily. A big thing about me is that I don't emote well in most situations(Like giving/receiving presents, being complimented, ect) its just how I grew up but do know that I am 99% screaming in happiness on the inside. I also get distracted easily and jump from one topic to another because my brain is like "Oh dude, this is neat, talk about this"

I guess I should say some actually good things about me, right? I'm a loyal person, be it friendship or romantic relationship. I will do everything I can to help if I am able to. I care about everyones feelings before my own(I think thats a good trait?) and want everyone to be happy so I will do my best with what I can provide.

I live in Idaho, and I really don't want to move out of my hometown as I really like it here. I'm a licensed cosmetologist and do work in a salon full time(so prepare yourself to either see hair on me, the floor or on you). I'm a digital artist(mostly furry art) and I also play a bit of video games(I'm not good at games but I have fun). My favorite games are Poke'mon, Disgaea and Rune Factory. I also like multiplayer games but don't have enough friends to really play any with(at least none that I see often?).

I also watch anime and read manga(mostly read manga recently). I like many kinds of genre but my fave is BL(dont worry I dont go on and on about it unless you ask me to) My absolute fave is Haikyu! And as title says I hoard manga. I have so much that I need a second tall bookshelf. I collect many other things too like figures, pins, keychains, plushies, pokemon cards, and the list could possibly go on.

A few things that I can not stress enough before you message me.

No I don't want to be sex friends, I have literally said at the beginning that I am asexual

No I will not change my mind about it no matter what you say or do

Please send the first message every so often. I don't want to always be the first one the message or ask questions. It makes it seem like you have 0 interest in getting to know each other, and if you do feel like that then let me know immediately so we can save us both some time.

Please understand that I won't always be up to talking as I may be tired or just have a low social battery, just as I am sure you won't always want to either. Or I may simply be at work and can't talk.

If I seem like cool beans for you after all that then hmu in DM's. Maybe tell me something about yourself too while you're at it?