I'm interested only in men who are happy with their human identity, but are attracted to furries. Thanks!

Hello! I am hoping to meet a guy for normal friendly conversation to start, and maybe flirting/lewd down the road if a mutual attraction exists. I won't be playing a character; I'm just me, but the thing is I'd prefer it if we both picture me as my Second Life avatar.

My "type" are men who are older than me, anywhere from thin to dadbod. I don't care how you represent yourself to me - drawn art, photos, text description, the real you or a character, whatever.

Since it might be relevant later, I guess I should talk about what I think is sexy. I have a hair fetish, which I doubt is interesting to anyone else. I promise I won't hyperfixate on hair unless you want me to. ;]

Some other things I like are giving lots of physical affection - kissing, cuddling, soft biting, petting, appreciating a man's body. I like romance and gentle sex. I am not a dom, but I still like being larger and stronger than my partner. I like being able to handle my guy, even sit him on my lap. I know that for a lot of people size differences are part of a D/s kink but it's not like that for me. Maybe it's a power fantasy though... I like being appreciated for my strong body.

I am sometimes into being submissive or (more rarely) dominant but it's very situational and depends on my chemistry with the other person. I dunno, it's complicated and sometimes confusing. I like stiff cocks an awful lot. I like the idea of putting a guy who is comfortable with his masculinity over my lap to spank him. I might like it if my partner tugs my tail up whenever he wants me. TPE and free use can be sexy.

What I'm like as a person... Progressive, not particularly feminine, I speak coarsely and have a very dark, dry sense of humor. I read a lot and play vidya a lot. After 10pm ET is when I'm usually available on Discord, but on my off days I'll be online earlier. I don't like slow conversations with distracted people so I prefer not to speak to anyone who only uses mobile.

Hopefully that provides a decent starting point for a conversation. Thanks for reading. :)

Turn-offs: Rough sex, anything that causes intense pain, excessive fluids, cumplay, hyper, anime, porn logic