It’s been awhile since I’ve had a long term partner and I’m ready to start the search for one! So that we don't waste anyone's time-I know a few things I definitely want and have some deal breakers. This is longer than your average wanted post but I value transparency and clear expectations, which I hope you do too.

First let's start with the turn offs-I can not stand it when a guy introduces himself with a picture of his dick. I’m listing this as my first turn off so if you can’t bother to read my post and send me one - I will not respond. I am obviously adventurous and embrace my sexuality but I'm also a lady and want to be treated as such. Text speak ("how r u" "u cmin 2nt") also is a huge detractor.

Now for what I want- for me, I find people fascinating and I enjoy satisfying that curiosity through conversation. My physical attraction (and tension) is amplified through thoughtful discussion. I also enjoy learning about what drives you wild-but I require emotional compatibility before we go there. First dates will always be a casual affair and will only end with a kiss, if that. I want to feel respected and desired-something that I have found difficult, but not impossible, when searching for a partner to join me in this lifestyle.

Physically I am open to all types but do require a face picture*. I know it can be scary to put it out there but I feel like we are leveling the vulnerability levels between us. I am generally open to all ages but if you are younger than me, it needs to not be obvious when it comes to maturity.

You also must not be willing to forget my husband in this, as he is the one generous enough to share. He will not be involved beyond protection and his only desires are that all mine are met and that when I get my brains fucked out I bring him home photographic evidence so you must be comfortable with this.

I'm sure you want to know about my physical characteristics. I am a petite, busty lady-I'm far from heavy but I'm not super skinny either. I have blue eyes and long brown hair that I enjoy being pulled when the mood strikes. I don’t think you will be disappointed.

I do understand that I sound pretty bossy in this post, it is the opposite of how I want to be...I just would rather get us started out with clear expectations from the start. This is a mutual experience and I want the best for the both of us!

Other logistics - I have a busy schedule with work/family/friends but I would like a semi regular play partner and can prioritize our time together if we are a good fit. I am not interested in someone cheating on their spouse, so if you are committed you must have full support of your partner.

Please feel free to ask any questions or private message me (remember, dick pics are not welcome!). Looking forward to getting to know y'all!

*If you aren’t sure how to send a picture, Imgur allows you to upload a photo and share a link via direct message. Also, while I seriously doubt I know anyone who will message me, if it somehow occurs – I don’t know you :)