I’m a woman who identifies as a sub/little looking for a man who identifies as a Dom or Daddy Dom. I’m solely interested in monogamous, in real life, and long-term relationship potential.

I’m looking to be vanilla in appearance, especially to family/friends, and keep the kink between us. Not looking for 24/7. I want to be vulnerable with you, and that doesn’t come easy for me. It only happens when I make that emotional connection with a man I can trust and respect in both vanilla and kink aspects of life.

About me (vanilla): -Finance industry professional -Dual major grad student because I hate myself I guess 😂 -5’8” -Caucasian, blonde, blue eyes -Overweight at current but looking to change that and get back to my normal self (I’ve done it before so I know I can do it again) -Drug and disease free, Nonsmoker -Never married, no kids, but do want kids eventually -Dog lover (have 2 of my own, a lab and a golden, and we’re a package deal 😉) -I’m looking for a monogamous (threesome stuff we can discuss down the line if we get there) long term in person relationship. I’m looking for my life partner. 💜

About me (kinky): -Been a sub for 15 years -Been a little for ~5ish years (after realizing I didn’t have to wear a diaper to be one haha) -I have a praise kink (good girl, anyone? 😊) -I crave this dynamic to my core, so I know I can’t spend my life with someone purely vanilla -Top turn-ons are being told I’m a good girl, choking, ownership/TPE talk (but not actual TPE or 24/7), free use fantasies, cnc, aspects of degradation/humiliation, spanking, breeding fantasies, being woken up via sex, my wrists being held down or restrained in some way, and general bondage. -Hard limits are blood, extreme bruising (I faint at my own blood or deep injuries, and it is not fun!!), scat, animals, not recognizing safe words, non-consenting public, minors, extreme pain, and micro penises (not saying I need a porno dick but I’ve been with two micros, which are about the size of a finger when fully erect, and they’re just not for me 🤷🏼‍♀️)

About you (vanilla): -Live in Texas, preferably DFW -Professional, reliable career -Have at least your undergrad degree -Preferably taller than me but within a few inches of my height could work out fine -Age ~30 to ~45 -DDF -Fit/Dad bod/overweight are fine, obese is not -Single, preferably no kids but not 100% an immediate deal breaker -Wants kids in the future -Nonsmoker (cigs), preferably non smoker of weed or only smoke it on rare occasions (my bestie does it so I’m not judging; I just can’t live with the smell 24/7 for the rest of my life) -You had damn well better like dogs pahaha 😆

About you (kinky): -Identify as a Dom/Daddy Dom -Looking for a deeper, guiding connection with someone as opposed to just the strict and/or detached style of ultra hardcore doms -Won’t try to call me pet names right off the bat and actually likes that I won’t just call anyone sir or daddy. That’s a title reserved for the right man, and I don’t use it lightly. -Not a hardcore sadist (maybe a little bit of one though lol) -Hard limits similar to mine

Yep, I’m actually posting on Reddit in the hopes of meeting my life partner, knowing it’s a hell of a long shot. But I still have hope of finding you (in my Joe Goldberg voice lmfao) and making the right match for us both.

And please, before reaching out to me, take a moment to consider that I am, in fact, a real woman in the real world looking for a long term relationship. If you’re simply looking for someone to contact because you’re lonely, please don’t put me through that.

Looking forward to chatting with ya. ❤️