I am a happily married woman looking to broaden my sexual spectrum - I typically consider myself a Hotwife but right now I am looking for a another female who is also looking to cross off another bucket list item.

My perfect scenario - another woman who is like me, very interested in the idea of being with and exploring another woman but it just hasn’t happened yet. I’m not opposed to someone who is very experienced provided you are comfortable with inexperience and taking your time to let me learn (and enjoy). I am also open to the right couple who are both interested in sharing me but I would want the emphasis to be me and the wife - the husband could certainly have his turn once we are both ready (to note-I’m also open to a female couple). Ideally you would also be comfortable with videos for me to bring home to my husband (who will not be involved at all and the videos would never be shared) but for the right woman, this is negotiable. I would love to find a partner that is more than one night but am not opposed to a one time thing, whatever feels right.

What I’m looking for in my partner - someone who isn’t looking to move into the bedroom tomorrow but also is ready to let things organically progress. A person who can become my friend and have real conversation, creating a connection and spark (which is the ultimate turn on for me). I am open to all races and most body types (real women are turn ons so don’t let extra weight discourage you but you must take care of yourself). Most importantly I must find you attractive in the face which I know is superficial but it is what it is. I don’t care if you drink (I tend to not have more than a glass of wine) or smoke weed but am not comfortable with cigarette smokers or any other drugs. I also expect you to be clean and recently tested (as I am). I’m not sure what the right age is but in my mind, anyone younger than 25 is probably too young - I am fine with older.

A bit about me - I am a 35 year old white female with blue eyes and brunette hair. I am petite with a bit of a tummy (thanks babies!) and large breasts - I have a few pictures on my profile for reference. I feel silly saying this but I would consider myself attractive and tend to get male attention but I’m also not super hot (basically I don’t think you would be disappointed?) I work a lot and have a family so scheduling can be difficult but this is also a desirable priority so I can make time :)

Next steps - send me a message with your name (or nickname) in the subject line and if you are single or part of a couple. Tell me a bit about yourself and what intrigued you about my post. I know this is asking a lot, but to weed out options I will be only responding to those with a face picture. If you are newish and don’t know how to (which is a common theme in responses to my posts) I use Imgur to upload a private photo and share the link that way. If you are a hetero couple, the male is permitted to message me but the face picture for both will still be required. Expect me to want to converse with the both of you quickly if we connect in our initial conversations. Do not send dick pics.

In the full spirit of transparency, I also tend to get overwhelmed easily when it comes to searching for a new partner so you may message me now but it will be weeks before I am able to respond, if this isn’t ok for you then I’m probably not your girl.

I look forward to your responses and hope to have a very sexy 2020 with you!