I posted last week with not much luck I wanted to try one more time because I feel like could have a little clearer with my goal outcome…

Original Post: I know this is a long shot and maybe this isn’t the right place to find a genuine person but I guess it’s worth the chance.

There is a bit of a back story to why I am taking the chance to post here which is not something I would normally do. 10 years ago I lost my hs sweetheart a couple months before we were supposed to be married to a freak accident. That’s all I want to say about that rn as I don’t like to talk about it please don’t judge me.

Anyway in that time I have not moved on to another woman in any way. So why I am here is because I am finally starting to feel like I am ready or maybe recently is just the first time my natural human urges have finally outweighed the negative feelings or maybe now that I live in a new place it feels a little easier to try idk but those natural urges also now come with a lot of nervousness because it has been so long since I have been with someone.

So to keep this post from getting too long for people to want to read I’ll get to what exactly brings me here. I’m hoping to find someone understanding that feels they might be a good fit to help someone like me get back in the swing of things so I can be a little less nervous about getting myself back out there. Or perhaps someone who can relate. Would be glad to hear from anyone who feels compelled to reply and go from there. Thanks for reading.

Added clarification:

I say all that because I like to be up front and I do want to find a genuine person. But I am looking for something that leads somewhere sexually. It is the first time 10 years I have had desires and I want to act on them. I definitely want to chat first and connect beyond sex but make no mistake I do want something that leads there.