Hello redditors. I posted this in the bdsmpersonals reddit then realized that it would make more sense to also post here. Thank you in advance for taking the time to read.

Dynamic I am searching for a kink lover that is interested in looking for a regular kink partner and friend. Specifically, I am looking to build trust by engaging in regular meet ups and conversation outside of the bedroom. While I am not specifically looking for an intimate relationship. I do want to ensure compatibility, comfort, safety, and fun. That kind of relationship can only be built with time which includes understanding each other as people.

I am looking for a M/s that will incorporate aspects of the following dynamics as well:

Dom/Sub

Sadist/Masochist

Owner/Pet

Degrader/Degradee

In this dynamic, I am looking to engage mainly in the bedroom, however I am open and interested in actions outside of the bedroom. For in the bedroom: submissive/behavioral training, orgasm control, pain/pleasure, spanking, choking, cnc, toy training, rules/guidelines, sensory deprivation, and more. If outside the bedroom: emotional/mental domination, sadism, roleplay, teasing, commands, and etc.

Also before any scenes take place, there will be a vetting process to ensure that everything is clear and well understood long before to ensure safe play. This includes verifying that we are attracted to each other (we all like what we like you never know), discussing boundaries/limits, experience, understanding each other's goals and needs. I would also need to either FaceTime or meet in a public space to ensure I know who I am meeting. This also includes confirming DDF, schedule arrangements, understanding of expectations.

My Self Normal To describe myself, my personality would be considered chill, reserved, and honest. I currently work in the IT industry while also close to finishing up my Master's. In general, I prefer to be an introvert, but I go out a couple times a week to do things that interest me or sometimes just people watch (we all do this at some point). I go to the gym regular anywhere from 5-7 times a week. I do also enjoy card and video games as well (definitely ask for my lists). I have a degree of emotional intelligence that is always growing, however I am aware of my partner when I take actions.

Kinky I found kink some time ago especially when I was younger though I didn't get to really explore it until college. Based on that I have learned a number of things and continue to learn more. I am not new to kink, but I also wouldn't say that I have reached expert status when comparing myself to true veterans. While not super important you be aware that I do have a decently high sex drive as well. I enjoy being a Sadistic Master the most though I have experience in other roles as well. I do have limits and boundaries and would like to discuss them when the chance arises. I am open to talking more and learning more about different people's kinks.

My Partner Normal For my partner while not an exact requirement. I would ideally prefer someone that I can connect with or who is open to connect with me to develop a level of trust and interest. I hope that similar to me you have your own interests and hobbies as I would like to learn some interesting things about you as well. Additionally, having an open-mind/curious mind. You take care of yourself whether that is your health, mental, or general state of being in life. If you enjoy nerdy things or enjoy being active like arades/physical training that is a bonus, but not required. I do require that you are above the age of 21 and that your location is relatively close to Denton County or willing to meet close to that area.

Kinky As a kinky individual, you would be upfront and clear about what you want or looking for. While I am not opposed to assisting someone learn, I would advise for you as a person to have some knowledge and research yourself (I don't want you to take my words as law verify through your own understanding and research). In general, have a drive to learn and experience more things in the world of kink. If you have goals that I can help with don't be afraid to say or if you have interests that I can help you achieve. It is important to have your boundaries and limits or are open to discussing more about what they could be.

If you have made it this far. Thank you for reading. If you are interested then send a pm with information about your hobbies and kinks that you enjoy. I am in no kind of rush, but I am intentional and not looking solely for a chat buddy. Thank you again and good luck.