Just gonna be brutally honest lol, I've got anxiety and beginning to suspect I'm autistic as well but just good enough at masking that I flew under the radar for 31 years. I left a 6 year long relationship early this year and it's been lonely since then, I'm just looking for someone to hang out with and once we get comfortable move into a FWB thing if we are both into it, otherwise just staying friends would be cool as well or we could go our own ways if things don't work out.

A little bit about me, I'm college educated, work a decent job, live on my own and can host. I enjoy PC gaming, nerdy stuff, guitar, movies, TV and really love going to concerts, specifically emo, pop punk and depending on the artist, sometimes metal shows as well. I used to be really into kpop and korean rap too (and have been to several korean rap concerts as well). I've got a bunch of shows planned through the end of the year. Something like 6 in november alone, and you are welcome to join me at any of them! I'm always down to go to emo nite in Dallas as well, been several times already! I'm a cat dad and I've also started growing plants and want to get some more plants as well.

I'm bi, attracted to most women tbh, including bigger women but when it comes to men I tend to be mostly attracted to more fem men. I mostly present as male myself but on occasion, at home, I do like to present more fem as well, sometimes shave my legs and go for that femboy type look. I look fairly young so that helps with the look lol. I'm a little shy about that so if that isn't your thing though, it's not as problem as I don't mind presenting male either. Gender queer people are cool too!

As for what I look like, I can send photos if we start chatting, but I'm white, blonde hair, blue eyes, clean shaven, 5' 10, 185 pounds, little overweight, but nothing crazy.

The type of person I usually end up meshing the best with are neurodivergent queer people. One of my previous partners said I make love like a woman, which I take as a great compliment haha. I tend to be very foreplay focused and based on the feedback I get, seem to be pretty good at it.

I'm not interested in anyone looking to cheat, it goes against my morals. Strongly prefer people near my age, if you are significantly younger, it's going to be a no. I also take my health seriously and prefer protection and STD test. I have a recent STD test I can provide as well. I'm also 420 friendly, but I'm not a stoner and respect people who don't partake and we can stay completely sober if you prefer.

If any of this interest you, shoot me a message and we can chat and exchange photos and see what happens, no pressure haha.