I know my situation isn't that unique as I've met people in the past that were in identical situations.Â
See if this sounds familiar to you. You are attached, whether married or a long term relationship and for the most part things are fine. For whatever reason the physical side of your relationship has diminished from what it used to be.
You find yourself craving some of the attention you used to get from your significant other. Not just sex, although that may be a large part of it, but the phone calls, text message, notes, etc. from him letting you know he was thinking of you. The butterflies or excitement waiting to see that other person has diminished as well.Â
Perhaps like I've done before, you've confided in a friend(s) and their only advice is for you to leave. But what they may not understand is leaving isn't really an option. Maybe there are financial reasons or even children involved and leaving just simply isn't an option. So what do you do? Do you stay in the relationship because of those reasons I mentioned above and more? Odds are yes, even though you'd be unhappy.Â
Or do you do what some people would think is unthinkable and find someone that can help you fill that void you have? There is always the concern then of discretion then as you don't want to destroy the relationship you're in. But what if you could find someone that was attached themselves, had no intention of leaving his relationship for various reasons but was like you, longed to feel those butterflies and get back that lost part of your life that you miss.Â
Well, that someone is me. I am married with one child and have no intention of leaving my relationship or in any way destroying someone else's relationship. Intimacy and more is nearly completely void in my relationship. I long for someone to send me text messages letting me know they are thinking of me or how much they look forward to the next time we get to see each other. I would love to find someone to have that 'special' relationship that is just between the two of us where discretion and boundaries are important.Â
I don't smoke, am a social drinker and take good care of my body. I enjoy a variety of things in life and always open to learning and trying new things. If I've piqued your curiosity, feel free to write. I do look forward to hearing from you!
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