Things can seem appealing but then fade quick, the convo can be good but the attraction falls flat, the convo can be good but there's no chance you will ever see this person because of distance, so things can be good from far but far from good. To make it work you need the perfect balance of what works for both people, so finding your person will be hard... but I haven't given up.

36 M Vancouver area Canada, (west coast PST) married, not looking for a change of situation but an enhancement, flirting, fun, more. It could be just friends, chatting, gossip, an ear, a women/mans perspective to help each other but i wont turn down flirting, pics, good conversation and more. Affection, fun, sex would be a bonus, so there has to be some mutual attraction.

No need to waste time so trading pics should be expected if this were to move forward. And honesty and trust and respect is needed along with privacy which should be a given. Privacy is a must, trust, respect.

Who doesn’t need a boost of dopamine in their lives, energy reignited, and change from the ordinary.

Skip the small talk and BS and let’s keep it interesting and fresh. Spark conversations and ideas. Be intriguing & social. Be engaged in asking & answering questions. Be ok with swearing and sarcasm. And most importantly be straight forward and yourself, no need for mind games. Have actual care and time and devotion to a relationship or friendship of some sort. Have someone to motivate you, laugh with you, but also keep you in check.

Age is not a fact for me. I don’t have a “type”, it’s all about the chemistry and connection. It’s got to flow and come easy, not forced. I've posted, I've chatted, but nobody comes or gives that same energy and openness that I do.

I make the effort, I take initiative, I’m often first to contact, ask engaging questions and try to get to know people only to see it flop or not get the same back. It gets tiring and hopeless and really not worth it it seems. Maybe location is also an issue, online only goes so far, with no actual intention to meet or be physical ever it can fall flat. But I’m not restricting it, it could work but it has to be pure.

I’m respectful, honest, trusting, trustworthy, helpful, reliable, straight forward, passionate, affectionate, and accepting.

Into food and cooking, all types and dishes and ethnicities. What I feel like eating I make. Sometimes ideas come from restaurants, but sometimes it’s just social media, TV or cooking shows, comedies, action, suspense and crime. And of course sports, big sports fan. Sports is life, if you’re into sports big bonus.

Music hip hop, r&b, edm, house, rock, anything that sounds good and feels good, and is good.

Into sugar & sweets & salty snacks, who doesn't love snacks? What are your favorites?

Enjoy walks, biking, playing sports, weights at home.

Very 420/710 friendly, have been for years. Not a big drinker, very social and rare. Don’t smoke cigarettes.

Am a mix of old and new school. Like technology but can respect old technology and how things have advanced and are always advancing in all aspects of life.

Down to chat about anything and everything and take it all in one day at a time and one step at a time, not looking to change my life or situation like most people but wanting more and a connection that’s different and an addition to my life. Life is short and I don’t want to miss chances but also don’t want to lose things and change things and cause drama or stress for me or anyone.

Can chat on here or another platform, whatever works.