Hello Reddit!

I am looking for something serious and long term, of course, something real and not entirely online. If you do not have any intentions of making this happen for real or the time to message back and plan to put zero effort into that, please don't message me, please. Waiting 3-4 days for a reply, messages like "yes, oh and ok" the whole time won't get someone anywhere. I am tired of people wanting to sell me nudes, roleplay or just use the chat to get their 10 minutes of dirty talk.

I do intend to start online, get to know each other and then plan to meet up to see how it goes later on. I can travel long distances, but she should be able to do the same. Overall I am a very flexible and open-minded person, ready to make compromises. Ideally, she would be from Europe, somewhere in the middle of Europe. Canada also works for me since I travel very frequently there and plan to relocate there soon (Montreal area). She should have the financial power and time for something like that as well as a high sex drive like me.

So what I am looking for, and what do I expect?

I am looking for a monogamous relationship; I do expect trust, honesty, loyalty, and support from her as I would support her as my Sub and partner. I am looking for a strong personality and a lovely character, spend my time maybe even to enjoy similar hobbies and interests together. Of course, we should have the same or at least similar and kinks. After all, I am looking for the full package and do not mind finding a compromise in the golden middle. I don't believe in finding the perfect partner/sub here but who knows right?

My ultimate goal is to make my future partner feel firm and confident with me. Of course, she should be able to manage and organise her own life. I would encourage her as best as I can and support her. She doesn't need to be experienced or look like a model. All that I demand is that she stays away from others and entirely focus on me. I want to fall with her character and personality in love, not just because she has bigger boobs than someone else. It is okay if she is inexperienced. Dark Skinned (Ebony/Latina from Africa or Brazil), curvy and or Japanese women have a massive plus here, but it's not a requirement! Just a plus point!

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What can my partner expect from me?

My Partner would always be the most important person in life to me, taking good care of her, treat her well, show her and express my love as much as I can and make her feel home. She would get all the attention and affection she needs from me. That also includes vanilla or straightforward care by just cuddling, holding hands and kisses or other romantic stuff. Especially after a long session, I would take good care of her!

The Kinks: My main kinks and fantasies are all about Breeding. That includes:

1. Impregnation
2. Lactation
3. Some sort of control and being dominant but nothing extreme like a collar, soft spanks and all that, basically more like a guide and someone who helps
4. Hucow and Ponyplay (Petplay in general) - I always dreamed of having a breeding mare or a hucow to milk and breed at home, I am also open to other pet ideas

Besides the above-listed ones, I like a few more things which could be combined and added together with my kinks above: Latex suits, bondage and spanking. In general, I would make use of toys and other tools to tie her up, mute and make her deaf. Apart from toys, I also would love to see her wearing a collar with a cute nickname, at home or even in public if she wants it. At the same time, I would also combine that with a beautiful leash. Worth to mention here is also that I imagine having daily if not weekly rituals and static procedures in the schedule like to have something specific every morning or Friday evening. I do not want a pure BDSM Relationship, more like a full package with all the other perks as I mentioned at the beginning.

If all that sounds interesting for you, here is a little bit more information about me:

I am 24 years old, born in Germany and have deep roots in Germany itself. I have Blonde hair, blue eyes and wear glasses. I also have a beard, and I am a tall person, 185cm big. My weight is about 130 KG plus/minus 5KG. I do not smoke, take any medication/drugs or drink alcohol very frequently.

My friends describe me as a very calm, relaxed, honest and kind-hearted person who has a very dry, dark humour and enjoys to have control over various things, e.g. at the Job. In my free time, I keep myself fit and work on losing some weight and go quite frequently to the gym. I am not a photo model, so before you expect an Arnold Schwarzenegger here, calm down.

I also do not entirely train for weight loss. My main goal is to gain strength. I have to mention this here because people think I look like an Instagram photo model living in Hollywood. I also love watching Movies, Series, play games and watch quite a lot of Porn. Other than that I like playing Video Games, watch series, animes and read H-Mangas.

Please keep in mind that. If you decide to message me, please take a few minutes to introduce yourself properly and mention your gender, location, your kinks and taboos as well as a small description of yourself. Also please let me know what your favourite dessert is