Just helping my soon-to-be ex husband sort through the cesspool of Reddit. Life never goes how you think it will. Ever. Things change, people change, our needs and wants change. Sometimes, you get married and 13 years later realize that you’ve spent those years slowly chipping away at who each other is, trying to make the pieces fit to have a comfortable life together. But in the end, neither of you are happy, whole, or fulfilled. This is the point that my marriage has hit. It’s time for us to get a divorce, but we’re also striving to keep things amicable, communicative, and encouraging each other to build back those things we’ve lost over the years. He’s gotten out there and tried to chat with some people, but was very discouraged as all he got were sellers and bots. We’re getting divorced but I still love him as a person, so as part of our journey I’m hoping I can help him find some local women to at least chat with and get to know.

He’s 5’10 with a muscular dad bod, into things like guitar, songwriting, manga, Xbox and PlayStation, anime, is learning Japanese, very active and enjoys 10 mile bike rides, works in IT, loves craft brews, has a great sense of humor, into all things 80s… and is a genuinely good man.

He’s one of my best friends and that won’t change, but I’m also not a threat and just want to see him happy. Send me a message, let’s chat a bit, and if it seems like a good fit, I’ll forward his snap chat or telegram and you guys can get to know each other from there.