Hi, First time poster… but long time watcher. I read these posts all the time.

I’m just surprised at how few posts there are on this group. I was in the 40 plus group because there are so many more posts, yet early 40’s just don’t usually make my cut… only because I can tell the life differences are more substantial. I was hoping with the 50 plus group I just wouldn’t have to weed through all those posts.

There are actually a lot of early 40’s still looking to start that family. I’m past that. I would hope most 50 plus are. (Well 40 plus should be also) The place I’m at, being 50… most early 40 year olds are not. I like being able to communicate with someone with some common ground of where we are at in life. Yet at the same time I like enough differences to learn and keep things interesting.

I generally look somewhere from 45-55 I like to stay roughly 5 years either way… doesn’t mean there can’t be connections outside of that age range but I usually stick with the odds.

I’m not really looking for a relationship, but just random conversations. Something and someone to help pass certain moments in the day… someone who is looking for that also. I don’t want to give too much away in my post because the fun of a conversation is learning about each other.

I’m not married. I’m not looking for anyone else that’s married either. I realize that is going to eliminate a large percentage of responses but usually the time that I’m looking for a conversation they are going to bed with their wives. Weekends I’m free a lot and I find most married people are not. Just doesn’t work out well.