Hi,

Bisexual White Male here. (East Bay, CA)

I'm an active 54, 6'2" 230lb and in pretty good shape. I'm starting to go a little grey(sigh) but I'm proud to say that the atypical beer-belly/spare-tire is more of a space-saver spare nowadays and it seems to keep getting smaller every day. [BTW 6" circumcised, if it really matters] i'm social drinker & am definitely 420-friendly. Long story short, my wife has always known that I'm Bi. I messed around with few buddies in my 20's but those relationships all came about and ended organically long before we met and we've been monogamous for our entire relationship. I always hoped I'd find another buddy some day but I'm very hetero-romantic so i've chosen to focus on that...until now.

life is short. Our time alive is limited.

I'm never going to find a buddy if i don't start looking and i seem to have some freedom. After a lot of discussion over many, many years, I can now go find a buddy as long as I'm safe, respectful and discreet. But there lies the challenge. I'm out to only a few close friends and have no interest in changing that. None of our current friends know about our situation and we would like to keep it that way.

Honestly, being discreet is part of what turns me on!

I think that anyone who I would really be in to would probably feel the same way but meeting someone, who also wants to be discreet, without putting a lot out there, seems nearly impossible.

Among my hobbies, I'm really into mountain biking and ride a few times a week. But it's not like I'm fast or competitive. it's just a fun pastime, exercise and adventure. I have always loved the social aspect of it too. Meeting up at local parks to go for a ride has always been an easy way for me to make hetero-platonic friends over the years. So why not a Friend With Benefits? If you're around the same age and body shape (not that it's all THAT important) and attached(whether she knows or not, we'll work it out) please drop me a line.

Franky, it would just be good to find a friend who's in a similar situation to mine and might be interested in just meeting up for ride, then maybe chatting about being Bi and married afterwards.

Look, I'm not trying to find just a hookup.

While i love to talk dirty, I really don't want to exchange a bunch of pervy pictures and messages with just some random anonymous screen name. But if you want meet up IRL and simply go for a bike ride, then maybe have lunch with someone who knows that you're Bi and open to at least to talking, then send me a PM. Tell me about your bike and where you would like to ride it, then let's chat a little before we meet up.

Really, I'm just looking for a like-minded friend, who i click with on that certain level who wants to chat. Sure, for the right guy, I'd be glad to trade hand-jobs and do some grinding or more on the first date, but that seems a little like putting the cart before the horse.

Having an FWB means more than all that we like to do is just get off on each other.

I'll delete and not repost this message if I ever luck out and hit it off with a buddy.

thanks for reading. :-D

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