*Put the quote BEFORE messaging me. “Hey” or “Hi” messages will be deleted. Put some effort into your message, please.*

*About Me*

What’s up? 😁 I'm Becca. 👋🏾🤙🏾 I'm a 30-year-old woman. I'm from St. Paul, Minnesota (born and raised!) and I still live here, although I’d be interested in relocating. My height is 5’3”. I’m a liberal Democrat. I'm fully vaccinated and boosted! 🙌🏾

I'm an LGBTQIA ally, social justice warrior, and disability rights, advocate. I'm loyal, have a Master's degree in sarcasm, am marriage-minded, am emotionally mature, and am family-oriented. I'm fairly easygoing and open-minded. The multiple keys to my heart are *consistency, reliability, loyalty, honesty, and a good sense of humor. Good communication is also something I value highly in a relationship. For example, if I’m in a bad mood, I’ll let you know if I need my space and when I want to talk about what happened.* My love languages are Physical Touch, Spending Quality Time Together, and Words of Affirmation. I'm a hopeless romantic, so be prepared for cute, sappy quotes and memes! I also love cuddling, holding hands, and other cute coupley stuff. 😉🤗

I currently work as a Personal Care Attendant, but my dream job is opening a martial arts studio/boxing gym for underprivileged and at-risk kids. Martial arts is just one of the many things I'm passionate about. I'm currently a 2nd dan in taekwondo. Music is another one of my passions. My taste in music varies between reggae, world music, heavy metal, hip-hop, Aussie drill, Aussie rap/hip-hop, New Zealand rap/hip-hop, instrumental, acapella, and musicals.

I'm an anime lover, a fantasy/sci-fi nerd (Marvel is better than DC, so is Star Trek. Change my mind! 🤣), and a diehard Potterhead. Animals have always held a special place in my heart as well (dogs and cats to be more specific).

I’ve always wanted to raise future black belts who are just as independent and adventurous as their future parents.

*Who I’m Looking For*

*Someone who is 25-40 years old. Anyone over 40 or younger than 25, I’m flattered but I’m going to politely decline. I’d prefer to date another person of color. I’ve always been attracted to Pacific Islander men and Native American men.* I’m looking for someone independent and adventurous (legally), holds me to my word, encourages me to relax and let go, is interested in and invested in developing emotional boundaries, craves my attention, and knows how to be present without being distracted, can expand my mind, is emotionally mature and who I can love unconditionally. Having a strong physical attraction and chemistry should be priorities for both of us!

Please have a phone and use social media. It’s exhausting to have to figure out how to communicate with someone who doesn’t use modern technology.

If you’re into ATLA and Rick and Morty, love going to concerts, are open to different genres of music, and have similar viewpoints and dreams as I do, message me either here or on Instagram (@bb_tkd24). SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY, PLEASE!

*Long-distance isn't an issue, as long as we plan on closing the gap.*

If you read this post in its’ entirety, and if the qualities mentioned above sound precisely like you (not gonna lie, I’d be shocked yet pleasantly surprised if I found someone who fits this exact description! 😳), please include the following quote in your first message *“When we hit our lowest point, we are open to the greatest change, ”* along with your name, age, and where you live. That way I’ll know who’s serious about a long-term relationship. Bonus points if you know where this quote is from and who said it WITHOUT looking it up! 😉

I have Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, and Discord, as I plan on taking our conversation off Reddit eventually.

*Guys with long hair, beards, tattoos, and accents are my kryptonite!!!🤤🤤*