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21 [M4F] East Coast/Anywhere- Looking For A Potential Lover/Partner
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_Vishunei is a male age 21 looking for a female
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(Disclaimer- I am open to males as well. Ideally, it'd be good if you were in Florida or relatively close by.)

Salutations/greetings. You can refer to me as Vishu. A pleasure to meet you/whoever is reading.

Formalities aside, let's dive into the meat and potatoes of me. I'm not one for beating around bush much, as from experience that goes nowhere or leads to confusion.

To immediately disclose it, yes I am a furry, and reluctant to admit, I take some pride in that after much inner struggling. Don't let that discourage you, and if you have a cringing expression on your face, I apologize for the disappointment. Don't fret- unlike the majority of furries in my eye, I don't pride myself on having the vocabulary of a 3 year old, having one defining trait that's usually something to do with genitals, nor am I constantly immature or failing to hold the most simple of combinations. Excuse the slight arrogance,  but I foresee myself as a formal man. Or at least I try to be. I definitely don't mind sitting around and talking about the fandom as there are positives. And I definitely don't want someone constantly dismissing it, contrary to what I just said. I may stumble upon my words sometimes- an annoying habit, but you see what I'm saying. Currently, I'm studying for psychology, with a minor in criminal psychology. However,  I've been in a career limbo due to covid and trying to move on/reorient my life after a terrible breakup months ago. I'm looking for jobs at the moment for busy work/money to start remedying these issues.

Personality-wise: I'm a talker, and thinker. Quite extroverted and a loudmouth. An insightful soul, albeit a bit jaded, cynical at a young age. Sun Pisces, Leo Ascendant/Rising, and Cancer Moon. A bit of an airhead as I like to sit in isolated thoughts/self-reflection for periods of time. ENFP is my type, but I need to sit down and take the Myers-Briggs, not the many copies of it. I am incredibly kind, and an altruistic soul. I mean well, and genuinely care for people's emotions, their hearts. Helping others has always been a core trait of me, even at a young age. As mentioned,  I'm talkative, inquisitive, and I like to ponder sometimes. I like to dive into people's minds/vice versa and understand why and how people think a certain way. I am a loving man, and though I may not check everything on the list,  I will do my best to give you a worthy performance. Just excuse my moments of dorkiness, because well, I am one sometimes.  I can also be prone to overthinking, headaches, and sometimes panicking. I have a quick-temper, but that is situational and only with some games. I promise I wouldn't yell, as I hate that. I'm sensitive and wouldn't want to be yelled at myself. I can also be overwhelmed in some regards. Usually though, my raging is an act for amusement of others. My heart, though easy to wound, is stalwart, incredibly resilient if that makes sense. It's not inaccurate to compare me to a tsundere or edgy as they call it. Hopefully I haven't reached my arrogant quota; it'd be a shame. Another significant aspect of me is my vision loss. Fortunately, one of my eyes works well enough, though not perfect. I can certainly elaborate on that given we become closer.  For now, just know I'm that talkative, tsundere, one-eyed wolf prowling around.

As for hobbies, it should come as no surprise I like games. I consider myself a nerd. However,  I haven't watched too much anime in my life, aside from extremely popular ones (DBZ/Super, Naruto, FMA/FMA Brotherhood, Soul Eater, etc.). We can talk about some of them, and I'm sure you could introduce me to new ones. I simply don't have all the time or knowledge of the innumerable shows out there. Gaming wise, I enjoy FPSes, Battle Royales, some RPGS, fighting games, Third-Person shooters, some rhythm games, hack n' slash, and a couple more genres. Usually,  I am willing to play whatever a friend suggests. I believe having a friend to play with is quite a considerable factor, no? Hell, you want to play a bit of Uno? Why not? Genres I'm very big on are CoD, Kingdom Hearts (!), Monster Hunter(!), Smash, Ninja Gaiden, DBZ games, and more. Ask all about it if you're curious. I  used to have a PS4, but not anymore unfortunately. I play mainly on PC and Switch. Used to be quite big into mobile games as that was a passion of mine for growing up and highly accessible. I don't mind chatting about that. Other games I fondly remember growing up was Timesplitters, Nightshade, Nano Breaker, and especially Devil May Cry. Other hobbies include studying astrology to a degree, reading, doing hookah, going out to eat, visiting zoos, go-kart racing, long, deep conversations, and so on. Honestly I just like to chill out and socialize with people.

Music-  As far as this topic goes, I like artists many know like the late Michael Jackson, and sometimes 21 Pilots, Lorde, etc. Oddly, I think I become very fond of 80s music. Anyway, some  songs I like inckude Posion, Team, Word Up, Cities in Dust, and several others. My favorite genres of music besides the aforementioned include R&B,  a little rap, some ambience, some pop, some classical,  and especially EDM. Video game music is my absolute forte though,  and if you are particularly fond of music that sounds somber (a subjective take, yes), I'm sure we'll get along quite well. OSTs from both games and some movies are what I absolutely love. Anything that sounds melancholic or produces a feeling of sadness, etc within others simply fascinates me. It is a beauty not understood by many. If you are aware/into Kingdom Hearts, we'll certainly get along and that'll open for great conversations (!) The same goes for Monster Hunter.  TLDR- Any soundtrack from a game or show that is sad, regardless of length, lofi, chillwave. AND SYNTHWAVE IS HUGE.

Writing- Though I'm no professional,  I was always great at English/Language Arts, and people have told me I write very raw and powerfully. I've written some gothic/edgy poems back in high school; I could show you some for some mutual laughter over how silly it may be. For some time,  I've been working on a story as well to recount my some prior hardships. That's what it is on the surface; if we grow close, I will elaborate much more.  Though you may not interpret it, I am a thespian wolf, you could say. I love the idea, the expression, the capabilities of theatre and what it means. My recently found dream,  and a reasonable one is to wtite for the stage.  If I can't make it out there someday as a potential actor,  I'd like to at least contribute to be part of something bigger. Maybe my raw/emotionally charged writing could prove useful for the stage, yes? Sometimes when talking,  I may refer to myself as a villian. I do that for lore reasons related to my character,  and some real-life inspiration. Obviously I don't actively go antagonizing people or anything, but once you get to know me, I think you'll see it's better I embrace the role of villainy the world seemingly wants me to be given my backstory/evolving circumstances.

Shows/Documentaries/Movies-  I don't watch too much TV anymore, or ever did frankly. Most of what I watch is on YouTube or Netflix. Genres I  favor are horror, crime/real-life inspired, comedy, psychological horror, and drama. Of course,  I'm open to other genres as well. I used to watch animal documentaries, and a lot on crime. I give myself breaks from the crime/creepypasta, etc stuff as too much consumption at once gets me paranoid and it becomes unhealthy for me. I usually break and look at something upbeat or an animated movie. Pixar movies, as well as Disney. Or whatever strokes my interest.

Appearance- Despite my blind sye, I'd say I'm well, if not slightly above average.  I'm 5'11, and weigh about 136ish pounds. A slim jim is how I denote myself. I'm skinny, but I don't exercise too much. Something I'll certainly need to change as high metabolism doesn't last forever. I am black, wear glasses, and like to dress casually (t-shirt with ripped jeans, etc.) or semi-formally (I really, really like slacks and formal attire but nothing crazy like my prom tux and whatnot). I've got a wolf tattoo on my left bicep, and though I do grow a bit of hair on my arms/legs,  I like to stay well groomed and smooth. I consider myself bisexual/asexual, with a bit of demi thrown in there. Essentially,  emotional connections are the most effective way to my heart and body.  If we connect on a lot, make effort, etc, gradually I'll open up and trust you. We'll start discussing deeper topics, insecurities, etc. I experience a strong sexual attraction once emotional connection is established. Though asexuality is often highly misunderstood to the annoyance of us who identify with it. Its not a "I never will have sex at all; more of an individual case-by-case with the general definition of sex not being as big a necessity for a functioning relationship. More on that later at your request or research. As such,  I'm not really into one-night stands, or people who are sexually pushy. That's not to say I don't have hormonals\ bouts or don't mind flirting/some lewdness. Try your luck as they say, and whatever works, works. Hell, if you want to sit around and have a lewd talk or something, let's go for it. Age-wise, I'm not comfortable with dating people far older than me. Think late 30s, 40s, etc. I prefer people around my age, but for some important ones,  I'll make exceptions and go above for. Honestly though, regardless of age, do not be intimidated. Its not a make or break- I don't mind if you're older, so take a chance.

Conclusion- It would be nearly impossible to cover every avenue of myself here, and this post is incredibly long I'm sure. Some probably didn't read this far, but I thanks for those who did. I appreciate you reading this. If you think you and I could have a chance,  by all means message me. There's nothing to lose, and if we do not work out, we move on or we could be good friends still as I'm not adverse to that. Frankly, if you understand or are willing to understand my vision, and support me even as the "villian", supporting me unconditionally as I eventually grace the stage with actions or my words, I will be eternally grateful, indebted to you til the end of days. And so long as you understand I don't want it to be a one-way street. I want to asist you as well, and bring out the best you. The you that feels the most comfortable and free. Reciprocating what you can give me is critical. We both deserve to benefit, and I will make effort as long as you do. Ultimately,  please do not stress yourself about me or feel intimated by what might seem to be asking a lot. I'm honestly a laid back, talkative, loving soul just looking for someone to connect and vibe with. This is meant to inform and find a potential partner.

Be well in your travels, reader. May you find what you're looking for.

If you'd like to contact me, please message me on Discord or Telegram.

Telegram-Vishunei Discord-Vishunei#2955

(P.S. i have a psychotic obsession with a gas station chain known as WaWa, and quite a sweet tooth for gummies.)

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