I have Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, and Discord, as I plan on taking our conversation off Reddit eventually.

*About Me*

What’s up? 😁 I'm Becca. ✌️🏾👋🏾 I'm a 29-year-old non-binary woman (she/they). I'm from St. Paul, Minnesota (born and raised!) and I still live here, although I’d be interested in relocating. My height is 5’3”. I'm fully vaccinated and boosted! 🙌🏾

I'm an LGBTQIA ally, social justice warrior and a disability rights advocate. I'm loyal, pretty much fluent in sarcasm, emotionally mature, and very family-oriented. I'm very easy-going and open-minded. The multiple keys to my heart are *consistency, loyalty, honesty, and a good sense of humor. Communication is also something I value highly in a relationship.* My love languages are Touch, Spending Quality Time Together, and Words of Affirmation.

I'm loyal (cheating is such a waste of time and emotional energy), have a Master's degree in sarcasm, am emotionally mature and family-oriented. I'm a hopeless romantic, so be prepared for cute, sappy quotes and memes! I also love cuddling, holding hands, and other cute coupley stuff. 😉🤗

I currently work as a Personal Care Attendant, but my dream job is opening my own martial arts studio/boxing gym for underprivileged and at-risk kids. Martial arts is just one of the many things I'm passionate about. I'm currently a 2nd dan in taekwondo.

My taste in music varies between heavy metal, hip-hop, Aussie drill, Aussie rap, New Zealand rap instrumental, acapella, and musicals.

I love extreme sports. I'm also a huge fan of boxing, martial artsl, rugby, soccer, footbal, basketball, and basebal). The New Zealand All Blacks are my favorite rugby team.

I'm an anime lover, fantasy/sci-fi nerd (Marvel is better than DC, so is Star Wars. Change my mind 🤣), and a diehard Potterhead. Animals have always held a special place in my heart as well.

*Who I’m Looking For*

*I’d prefer to date another BIPOC.* I don't drink (alcoholism runs in my birth family, and I'm trying to break that vicious cycle), smoke, or use drugs. I hope that the person I'm dating is also like this. If you enjoy smoking like a chimney or frequently getting drunk or high, don't message me.

*Long-distance isn't an issue, as long as we plan on closing the gap.*

If you read this post in its’ entirety, and if the qualities mentioned above sound precisely like you (not gonna lie, I’d be shocked yet pleasantly surprised if I found someone who fits this exact description! 😳), please include the following quote in your first message *“When we hit our lowest point, we are open to the greatest change, ”* along with your name, age, and where you live. That way, I’ll know who’s serious about a long-term relationship. Bonus points if you know where this quote is from and who said it WITHOUT looking it up! 😉

*Guys with long hair, beards, tattoos, and accents are my kryptonite!!!🤤🤤*

*FULL DISCLOSURE: I have a disability (FAS or fetal alcohol syndrome). I’m happy to answer any questions you may have. If you think my disability will negatively impact having a relationship with me, that’s your loss! I know what I’m looking for in a relationship. I hope you can look past that and see the person I am inside.*