I am a bit of a chunky monkey, 5’2.5, ethnically Pashtun, grew up in Canada, agnostic atheist (but respectful of and interested in religion) a big fan of music (anything good), with an unfinished degree in neuroscience, amateur writer, gryffin(dork), apolitical (but not apathetic, it’s complicated), I score ENFP on the MBTI, which also means I have a pretty sanguine temperament, but I can also be pretty serious. It also means I’m personally interested in every subject under the sun 😅. (But I’m also history illiterate 🥲 and have the memory of a gold-fish. 👌🏾, but I didn’t tell you that, and I’m totally not successfully working on it 😖)

I’ve found having someone to talk to really motivates me (and I’m on a journey to more self-completion (I use that term in my own way, in the context of something having gone wrong back there in my own life, I don’t think that’s literally achievable or a rational goal of some kind!)), healing, personal integration, and learning.

Some disclosure!: I’ve been on my own too long, and currently live with my family (super super sexy, I know) for ongoing health reasons. And I don’t work currently. Maybe you can be part of my journey :).

I’m also pretty open-minded and agreeable, ideally looking for the same. I don’t mind if you’re an extrovert or introvert, as long as you’re talkative, monogamous (😅), patient with someone still working on their dating game, and like to share. Exceptions are welcome and exciting! Maybe we overlap in interesting ways.

I’m also going through a phase (maybe we can talk about that) where I’d like to explore more gender typical roles on my journey right now, and because of that, I’m looking for someone fairly dominant/a guy to take the lead, and someone who can take initiative. I’m not a natural giver or cuddler but I’m “a convert” (so anything’s possible!).

Maybe you can be my gift from the universe or from my own powers of manifestation, in the form of a conversation?

Have a good one and I’m looking forward to hearing from you ! 😊 😈

(And no i’m not /alwaysss/ so peppy. Phew I think I used every possible emoji and covered the necessary things 😮‍💨 also, ignore the messy profile please 😬 (or feel free to have a peek 👀 at some of the nonsense one posts on the internet). I have no active alternate account to post from today!)

Happy Eid to those celebrating 😊

(Reddit isn’t letting me add personal details so I’ve omitted a photo)