Well hi, howdy, hello, how's it goin? I'm Spy. It's been.... a hot minute since I've done this, so please forgive the awkwardness. After being a serial monogamist turned ethical nonmonogamist turned relationship anarchist for 15 years, I have spent the last 2 years completely single with no adult connections whatsoever. I have no friends, I am not close to family, and I just generally find it unappealing to chat on dating apps (Tinder, Bumble, etc). I am an extrovert, social butterfly (with lots of anxiety, so that's cool) and generally thrive in social situations. Being isolated feels like a flame being starved of oxygen. It's an awful feeling. But I don't honestly know how to fix it! Meeting people as an adult is tough!! So, here I am.

I'm queer AF, nonbinary (they/them), panromantic grey-asexual (although kinky af), and as mentioned previously non-monogamous. I am liberal/progressive, I believe in science, I am fully vaccinated (Pfizer x2, Moderna x1) as are my kiddos, I am a raging feminist, and all that jazz. I really enjoy board games, and back in the day held weekly game nights (back when I had friends, and partners), and would LOVE to get back to that. My games are collecting dust. I also enjoy hiking (I know, very stereotypical for AZ but I can't help it!), painting, reading, and karaoke. I'd love to learn how to snowboard and surf, but Phoenix is not the right place for either of those activities. I want to travel the world. I have 3 kiddos, but don't live full time with any of them. I'm working on myself, and pretty freakin proud of where I'm at in life.

I figure I must just suck at talking to people, so why not practice on some internet randos and get better? It would be reallly cool if something came of this, but if not... well, it can't really hurt at this point! Let's chatttt <3