For you to know/Looking For:

-happily married and hubby is my Dom. Not a cuck situation, he just likes watching me in my Domme space/role. Nothing would happen between you two as he is straight (if that's a concern).

-as a Domme, best description of me would be firm but fair.

-would chat here first and then any/all communications would move to group text (please don't bother asking about other methods of messaging).

-vaxxed and DDF is a MUST (just good sense for safe sex). We would discuss further details before engaging in any activity. We are in Ulster County/Hudson Valley.

-bonus if you have an Iphone (not bc I care about brands but bc it makes texting easier)

-looking for LTR (meaning more than just a few days/weeks and NOT a “hit and quit”)

-24-35 (absolute youngest 21, oldest 38)

-be willing to travel (the closer you are, the better)

-you’re single (NOT looking for someone who just dates around). "exclusive" is in the title for a reason.. again, mainly due to sexual safety.

-would prefer someone who's fully a sub but if you're a sub-leaning switch, that's cool too

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*to prove that you actually read this whole thing, please include age, a SFW pic, and the county you're from in your reply (chat or message is fine)

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NOT into/will NOT tolerate:

-Asian fetishists or chubby chasers (not that it should matter but we live in a judgmental world so lets get this out of the way, I wouldn't count as a BBW but am "bigger" - yes, working on it). I'm also a little over 5’9 and hubby is 5'10.

-mommy/sissy/crossdress/age play/animals/watersports/TPE (no judgements if you are, just not my thing)

-racism/sexism/judgey and disrespectful people/general douchebag-ery

-flakes/posers/ghosters (if you're just trying to live out a porn fantasy, don't bother)

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I know my post might come off as "harsh" but I feel it's best to be straight forward (so I ask for the same in return). I know what I want/am looking for and hate wasting time.

That being said the hope is for the three of us to actually become friends and be able to simply hang out as well. We’d like to be able to connect on a human level. I'm very easy to talk to and welcome legitimate questions/concerns. The most important things for me are open communication, honesty, and respect. If it helps, I'm a bit of a bookworm, enjoy watching movies, and am a newer gamer. I'm also usually sarcastic in my day to day.

Props if you read this whole thing lol Hopefully the good fit is out there! :)

Side note - Everyone has their own thing that they're into/looking for. If this isn't for you, that's fine but don't leave some nasty comment. Be an adult and just move on.