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I'm just an average guy. I want love. Someone supportive of my challenges, fears, anxieties and I'd be the same for you. Someone accepting of my flaws which I can't easily change about myself. And I will have full acceptance and empathy towards your imperfections too. Let's improve ourselves together.
You can be from anywhere. So get to know me, hopefully for long term relationship βΊοΈπΉ
Im searching, somewhere in universe, a soul connection with honesty and compatibility for either live in relationship or marriage.
Im tall okayish looking Indian guy, not successful in career but have enough to support himself. I'm open to LDR and looking for true love. So, you can be from any country. We will be with each other in real someday.
My personality is deep and I'm keen to know what's yours like in depth. I want you to be expressive about your issues, feelings, things concerning you, things u wish for.
My views on relationships :
Loving is different from being in a relationship. And being in a relationship is not always being in love.
It's possible that 2 people love each other deeply, but aren't in a relationship for reasons such as incompatibility , feasibility. The inverse is also possible, that 2 people enter into a relationship/marriage , out of sheer convenience, co-incidence, circumstances or compatibility but are not actually in love.
Love is acceptance, when we accept the person with all his flaws for who he is , and when we in turn are confident that we'd be accepted and loved too and hence don't have to adopt a fake appearance or try to show us as someone we are not, to get acceptance. But it also involves us putting a serious effort to fix our shortcomings and improve ourselves so that we become even more suitable for our partner. We consider ourselves as a 'present' we are giving to our partner and want to give them the best version of ourselves.
Also love is when we care about others as much as ourselves and do everything possible, making self-sacrifices to prevent them from getting hurt even if it affects/compromises our own interests.
Relationships aren't about finding the best we can get, it's about finding the best person for us. A person who may not be as handsome, successful, smart etc but who'll stick with you is actually more valuable than an unreliable disloyal alpha man who frequently gives u insecurities and has potential to be infidel
Note-if you r saying something like you want to be friends, then clarify that it means u r open to idea of relationship in future after getting to know each other. Because friends is a misleading term and can also refer to just platonic online chat buddies, which I'm not really looking for unless you require my assistance for something or can add value to my life. And I don't mind being patient until u make up ur mind and become ready for relationship. I surely am lonely, but eventually i need a partner, talk buddies with no prospects of meeting wouldn't really help π . Of course, I don't ask you to promise forever lifelong commitment or anything.
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