I know I’m not saying anything that hasn’t been said by so many others, but 2021 kind of sucked. From the pandemic still going on, to my job being terrible, to stuff in my personal life (feel free to ask, I promise the stories are great). I’d like to make 2022 a little better, hopefully with a good person by my side.

To get looks out of the way, because they seem to be an issue lately for some reason: I’m fat. I’m 6’1, on my feet all day at work and take care of myself. But I’m still fat. I’m working on it, but I’m still incredibly comfortable in my own skin. I have long, dyed dark blue hair that is slowly fading. My ears are stretched, I have my nose pierced and I have a small handful of tattoos. I also have a killer mustache. I don’t think I have a style, really. I dress like a 30 year old aging punk rock dad. Good shoes, shorts, a graphic tee (usually something pop culture related). I wear what’s comfortable and what I think looks good.

I’m a bit of a nerd. I like movies, comics books, video games and reading. But I also like going out and having fun, just being with people. I’m more introverted but I’m not a shut in. I love to cook and bake, I’ve been considering going back to school for culinary arts. I love talking until the late hours of the night, long phone calls, selfies to look at during those long work days. I’m a romantic and a softie at heart. I’m looking for someone to share that with. I’m not saying I’m looking for my forever, but I’m not really looking for something casual either.

I feel like I’ve said a lot and nothing at the same time. Looking for ages 18 to mid 30s preferably. No real preference on looks. Ideally from Iowa or the Midwest at least, but I’m open to anywhere. I have traveled in the past to meet people and would again. Relocation is always on the table eventually. Hope to hear from you soon, tell me a little about yourself and don’t be afraid to ask me questions!